Hello everyone, I am just coming out of a 18 yr bad marriage and I am so totally new to this I don't know where to begin so I guess that's why I am here. My girl told me that she never loved me, but it was about what I could for her and that I was too nice to her. I am still in denial and hope to get her back. Sad but true none the less.

Dude, FUCK THAT. Sorry to get all riled up. Women are all about emotional roller coasters but nobody has the right to tell anybody after 18 years of marriage that they "never loved". The truth is that it was not ALWAYS love. Nobody has the same emotions about anything throughout time. Perhaps she just doesn't know how to express herself.

This is going to be tough but just tell her that for you anyway, there were special moments in those 18 years that made it all worth while. Period . . . done.

Now go out and get yourself some tail that will appreciate you and thank you for even 2 hours of fun. If you were one of my real life buds, I'd throw you a "welcome back" to the team party. Call all your friends. Get back in touch with the guys you couldn't chill out with due to your time investment into the marriage.

Yeah I gotta get back out there, it's kinda hard b/c I gave up my friends and everything to be with this chick. Now when females look in my direction I ALWAYS look away and get nervous and stuff.

I'm really sorry to hear about that. I wouldn't be surprised if 99% of all pua's come into this world after experiencing hardship. As shallow as this lifestyle might seem to outsiders... I think there's alot of love in it and alot of brotherly support. It's funny I think the male gender has been labeled the dominate one for so long in history I think it's actually become very used and abused, and this world of PUA's seems to help us gain back control again.

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forget about her, check out the bouncy's and bubbletanks on the streets and stop obsessing over her!

I feel your pain man. I'm at the beginning of the end of my short 7yr marraige. We've been a mess for a looong time. The one of the few things that have kept me feeling alive (other than my kids) are the occasional flirting I'd have on my trips.

I know it'll be tough...the first few steps are the hardest in seperation. I'm not sure where you are with that....me.....after this 4 day trip I start today, I don't know if I'm going home or to my sister's afterwards.

Anyhow, I'm new too. It's fun after you break through the initial "butterflies" in the stomache.

Good luck out there....