Ok I know this girl and i met her a week ago on sat, we got with each other so many times that night and she was constantly txting me, with love you at the end and the occasional love you loads etc etc any way i said i wanted to start seeing her, but she doesnt want to rush it and to be fair we are, she wants to keep meeting up, anyway met her friday and we walked talked hugged, and got with her twice once walking and once before i had to go.

Now shes being really strange over msn, like really straight to the point not making effort etc etc

she keeps mentioning boys to which i dont react, and now when i say goodbye love you she only puts ok babe bye xx <--- just two kisses

im ringing her later to speak to her, what can i say to her? i really want a relationship with this girl, i dont know whats going on? how could i find out from her? should i ask her? PLEASE SOMEONE HELP!

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No Disrespect,

But some of you guys really need to slow down and utilize proper grammar and English when posting so we can fully understand what you are saying.

That being said:

I agree with Sniper, you are getting tooled.

Don't call her, instead don't correspond with her for while, When she does finally text you, don't use I LOVE YOU, or LOVE YOU, or 143, or LUVS, or kisses, or any of that bullshit. that's AFC and puts you on the block to get your balls chopped off by this chick.

Act aloof, cool, calm, in a good mood, but don't give her the time of day. Don't be a DICK about it. but play it calculated. when she asks what's up, just tell her that she was the one that wanted to take it slow, so you're not rushing into anything.

From this point out just use string theory. Once you get the upper hand and she is begging for your attention then reward her (this could be a kiss, sex, a compliment). Rinse, Wash Repeat.

Good Luck, and welcome to the community.

So true, its simple yet effective,

last night we spoke, and i said you know how we want to be together but she was all like "im not sure how i feel, i really like you blah blah blah and i feel attracted otherwise i wouldnt be getting upset, but she said she doesnt know if those feelings are friends or whatever, and she'd rather be friends if we wasnt going to be friends if the relationship didnt work out, shes been hurt in the past and thinks this is whats to do with it

i told her i need some space and want to be left alone because its messing with me and i'll speak to her in a couple of days so she can sort her head out.

Haven't spoken since

god get enough girls but can never get a relationship!

im 16 btw hope this helps

hmmm that explains everything since u said u are 16 ok buddy .. u will learn how to deal with the girls sooner or late but all i can say to you is dont call or try to speak her with in 7 days let yourself to forget her dont respond every message she sent to you instantly reply after 3-4 hours or dont pick up the phone instantly if she asks why u are so late to reply and shit dont feel that u have to explain just say i had some shit to come up with or so.. about asking for dating if you feel that she likes u after that waiting period u can simply ask her out and if she says that she can not decide just say ok that was the last time that i asked u i wont be botherin anymore lets keep it as friends ..am sure it will work..

Hey dude.

Here's a question you might want to ask yourself. Why do you want a relationship with this girl? What's so good about that? If you think about it with enough depth I'm sure you'll start to find all sorts of reasons not to be in a relationship with her. Let those thoughts drift to the forefront of your conciousness and you'll find yourself inadvertently acting very cool and calm.

In addition to that go meet some other chicks. What I've noticed is that the more HBs you're talking to, the less you freak out when one acts in a way that isn't logical to you. You don't have to hook up with every single one of them. Just get them competing for your attention. You'll find that you end up becoming much less dependent on the attention of any one particular female.

From there on just roll. Sometimes people you meet are just flat out crazy. There's no good reason for thier actions. The more you dwell on the reason for thier actions the more you'll end up crazy like them. If you go for a shotgun approach you'll find something that works. Be patient though.

It may seem very pragmatic of me to say but the more people you meet, the better your chances are of finding one you wanna be with that doesn't drive you nuts. So go out and increase your odds.

Now I'm going to sit down and take my own advice.
Thanks for the post man. It was a good question.

CPT

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