What’s up guys? I’ve been lurking for a while now, trying to soak up all the information. I found my way here; I’m sure, like a lot of guys…. I’m 25 years old & the mother of my son left me after 8 years & I was searching desperately for a way to get her back. I was doing all the wrong things. Buying flowers, taking her lunch to work, buying gifts, calling & calling, basically begging. In my search I came across this and a few other web sites dedicated to pick up. I may still have a little bit of oneitis, but I’ve pretty much come to terms with the situation & I have been seeing different girls from my own social circle. I haven’t really gone into the field & used the methods yet. I think I have a pretty good understanding of the M3 model. Long story short, I went out with a group of friends last weekend & my intentions were to try it out….. I got to the bar & it was very very lame. There was only 1 set I wanted to approach. I pretty much talked myself out of it. It was a seated 3 set with a male. The male didn’t bother me, It was the fact that they were sitting at the bar & I would have had to approach from behind…. Which I knew is a no no. I probably should have done it anyway but I have extreme AA. What would been the solution? Also any tips for a beginner would be great, links to anything or just advice in general. Thanks a lot guys.