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I think my only problem in college game could be opening and maybe transitioning. I ave quite a lot of social proof around my college since I have lots and lots of good friends and I cant go from one class to another without high fiving/handshaking/gangsta handshaking with at least 50 people lol
Now I'm thinking, sould I use a direct opener? I have never ever practiced game before, I've only been in the pua world for maybe 2 months, however I get the basic concepts. I think that using a direct opener would be really risky because if it doesnt work I will probably seem desperate and my reputation in college will be destroyed. Do you guys think an opinion opener is better for college situations?
There is this hb9 (polish) that gives me a lot of EC and she doesnt know more than 3 or 4 people in college, however I've been told she has a 25 year old eastern european tall and big boyfriend, do u guys think its a good target?
After reading this post I have made a small routine mixing up all the openers:
HB9 sitting on her own:
Me: You must be sick of sitting alone here, so you will not mind if I sit here
she: whatever response thats not "no"
Me: You dont seem to have many friends in college (i suppose this is a DLV)... but dont worry, remember in primary school how easy it was to make friends? u just ask randomly to people if they wanted to be your friends. You still remember the drill, right?
I put both of my index fingers pointing at each other and touching untill she "breaks" the "bridge"
HB9: giggles or whatever
Me: High five!
HB9 gives high five
Me: u passed the test, now u r allowed to be seen in college with me
Now I should transition.
What do u guys think? What if when i run the opener she says that i cant sit there? that would really put me off.
Chances are she'll let you sit down unless she has a friend sitting next to her or something, then just sit one chair over.
IDK about your whole bridge idea, she might not get that
International girls with BFs are a crap shoot, sometimes they are willing to cheat and sometimes no, sometimes they'll have weird rules like you can kiss but not have sex but I wouldn't let some guy a million miles away scare you off.
If you know she's from poland and you haven't talked to her yet, learn something about poland that most americans don't know and throw it in *boom* instant rapport. you could even just say hello in polish or soemthing stupid like that.
I'm really good with openers, you can do opinion openers but I usually just make a casual observation about her or the situation or whatever like "wow, it's hot in here" like I'm talking to myself. If she says something back then I have an IOI because she's paying attention to what I am saying. You can look at her clothes and ask her something about them like "ok, so you are wearing crocs and a business suit, what's up with that?" Opinion openers are best for moving targets.