Ok got this girl,, easy f close but I really have got feelings for her, lol i dont actually have a clue how not to fuck it up for the first time cus the first is the worst i heard.

is it a good idea to do it with her? even though i want to have a relationship with her?

and pointers?

cheers fellas

Either - be honest with her or
Before you start say something like "wouldnt it be sexy if we told eachother exactly what to do.. get on ur knees "

That way she will point you in the right directions.

You have to go for it and see how it plays out. Sleeping with her will definetly not hurt your chances with having a relationship with her, if thats what you want. I'm only hesitant to sleep with girls when I don't want a relationship with them because of all the tricky emotional situations that can arise from it. And for your first time, I recommend using some kind of delay, or extra thick condoms.

well, make sure you do it well with the fingers and tongue, enjoy the sex instead of being ansious for it

and just do it man, you have to

possibly a stupid question..but I'm confused...are you saying YOU are the virgin and SHE is the expert of SHE is the virgin?

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He is saying that HE is the virgin

Ok so this is the same situation my best friend was in (she is girl). I wouldn't call her an expert, but she is experienced and started dating a guy that was a virgin. To be more specific, he had only made out with a girl, nothing more.

He must have mentioned this to her because I don't know how else she would have found out, but she was okay with it. She says he is learning, and that she doesnt mind that she is teaching him. In general, if you aren't doing something right (whether you are a virgin or not) a girl will tell you what she wants.

So if you are comfortable enough to tell her, do it. She will most likely be fine with it and just be more vocal about what she wants which will ultimately help you. If you aren't comfortable telling her and you still want to have sex with her, just listen to her cues or even ask her what she wants.

Lol cheers guys,, yeahh i am, but i really want a relationship with her sooo if it ruins my chances then i'd rather b with some next girl then go back when i have more exp


Totti;)

Ok, I know women love virgins. They think they can turn them into a perfect sex machine. All you gotta do is ask her what she likes and do it. Hell I still do that now because being verbal in bed makes for great sex.

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I dont think it will ruin your chances with a relationship with her. Like I said, my best friend is in a LTR relationship with this guy and they are in love. So, though it is only one example...it is a positive example that it can all work out.

The beautiful thing about women is that if her attraction to you is strong enough, she'll love that you are a virgin and embrace your virginity (and then take it!) I think honesty, and confident honesty at that, is the way to go. Ok, your a virgin. By choice? Then good for you. Not by choice? Ok so you didn't have game and now you do. Good for you. Just be comfortable in your skin and that will uphold that attraction.

Enjoy sir!

1. dont tell her your a virgin
2. watch some porn
3. man up, do work son.