frist off are you really a PUA? or just some guy tring to learn?

you must not be a true PUA. cause only a newbie would even bother to ask.

next thing you know you'll be one of them guys who tells girls to read the game and send her emails to this forums and links to top PUA seminars.



and any way. you know relationships don't always last. sometimes keeping things to your self is better than saying anything at all.

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Hahaha, I would most definitely NOT tell her that you were a seducer. If, for some reason you felt compelled to tell her that you seduced women, at least say 'pick up artist' over 'seducer'. Seducer, to a girl would most likely sound dirty and sleazy, and you would probably become a pedophile like character in her eyes. I'm sure there would be a way to make it work, but I would steer clear from it.

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No. Don't do it, end of story. There is no benefit from saying it, there are hundreds of other ways to display higher value without looking like a retarded douchebag.

girl= are you a pick up artist?

PUA= are you a gold digger?

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Hahaha....I like that, Nerd Avenger. I'm gonna keep that one in my memory banks.

Anyway, I've only just begun, and it's certainly not a standard plan to tell the ladies anything about "what I'm doing," but I did tell this one girl a little bit about being a PUA, not, "hey! I'm a pick up artist!" but i told her that I was "testing a theory" on her later on in the conversation, and then asked her to see if she could point out the points in our conversation where I was "testing this theory." She's a pretty intelligent girl and picked out the negs and cocky funny stuff pretty easily, not only what I had said, but why it worked. Then she was all like, "God I feel dumb *giggle*," and I was in. Of course, I totally blew it later on, but that's another story.

HB: Giacomo you are such a player arn't you?

Giac: Oh my god!

HB: ????

Giac: OH MY GOD! You are psychic i knew it from the very first moment I met you! Nothing gets past that telekinetic brain. Can you do another mind read on me?...
Tell me why I'm having dreams about cooking?

It has worked for me...

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its boasting, which is never a good idea with women.so the answer is a big NO!

...and pray none of them is a journalist. LOL

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My 2 cents, I would not call my self a PUA. If they asked what I did I would tell them what ever job I do but as a hobby or for fun I am a socialite. I like to mingle and meet new people.

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couldnt have said it better myself....

except i wouldve written
dickhead, wanker, tossa, twat, idiot, cunt, headcase......or something to this effect at the end

Besides actually calling some one a newb to PUA, what would the official term be? I wouldnt assume apprentice because I would think you have to have some one to shadow or something. Just curious cause I am obviously a newb.

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Thats an idea. Maybe I will start telling women that I dont want to see anymore that I am a PUA. That should keep them from calling!

NO WAY MAN!!! If she is salty about the way things went she could make it her life mission to make you life hell. I have dated a psyco before and I dont recomend it. You do what you got to do but I wouldnt try it.

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DO NOT say you're a PUA, instead opt for the more cleaned up version: "I'm just a social butterfly, but if that's how you see me, then that's really flattering." Then proceed with game.

Nope..

If you're a guy she should already know you're a seducer, or gay..

It's just not a necessary topic to discuss and can lead to misunderstandings.