came to know of this circle after picking up Style's book.

Im 28 years old, never been laid (rofl) and always struggle with girls (slim girls, shorts girls, blah blah they are all the same really)

Been trying to get to know this really cold girl in my workplace (she is a student here) who doesn't talk to anyone else. I screw up big time by acting like a pussy--buying her food and even asking if she is free...and no prize for guessing the answer (i do not dare to ask her directly for a date, too embarrassed)

Yes, I have severe one-ritis with this one.

guess that will do~ quite a lengthy introduction.

This sentence right there tells me you are ashamed and you have no confidence. Your inner game is in need of a serious makeover. You have got to get over your fear and step out of your comfort zone. Its a long challenging process but well worth the reward. AND QUIT BUYING SHIT!!! Do not reward the girl when she has done nothing for you.

I am 28 as well. Welcome to the board. Stick around, your dick will thank you.

CK

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success is my only mother fucking option, failure is not.

Hi i would say that you need to read more books because you don't seem to know what the game is all about. You never reward a girl by buying her food etc; without her giving you something first. Oh and " and even asking if she is free" wtf!

Put simply you need to take care of the confidence side of your game or you ain't gonna get laid.

GOOD LUCK

you could definitely do with working on your inner game, you would probably get a lot from Rules of the game. I am currently working through it and the change is amazing.

There's a couple of books that can help u out:
Robert Dilts: Beliefs
Robert Glover: No more Mr Nice Guy (This one rocks)

These two will definitely help u out as you can apply that in all areas of ur life.

thks guitarpickup
i am munching Robert G's book down and finding it insightful so far.

man first of all u gotta find urself a new target who is as beautiful as her so u can be a lil bit more cooler about her till the day u feel comfortable dont ever speak to her even dont look to her she will recognize u sooner or later soo here is the important part when u decide to talk to her wear some hard perfume as ur dick will be and talk about some cool shit dont talk about the work u can tell her about a movie or u can ask her if she likes studyin or workin more then u can tell her that u observed that shes workin too hard and deserved goin to a movie together take care buddy..

need help...

not sure if I got an IOI from this girl just this afternoon. We have great eye contact that last while sharing food and gonna meet her up tonight to help her up with her school work. Probably won't have much people around (hopefully none! ) during that time...

is there a good kino technique for a shy girl like her? She tends to look into the computer screen even while we are talking, and I am hoping for a way to escalate this from a potential "LJBF" situation...

probaby try to sit a little closer to her today perhaps?