I find it appropriate to write a post on relationship game and since I'm in one and I can't really post about fucking bartenders or cousins anymore ha.

Relationships are tricky little buggers to make them work. And this post will give you the basic path to take once you're in one. First of all, I want to say it's important to find the balance between Alpha and gentleman. Every woman likes a sweet side to a guy, but it's also important to be the daredevil that keeps things exciting all the time. The guy that makes her friends go "holy fucking shit you're a lucky girl" and the sweet side to make her feel special without making it overly sappy and dramatic.

A killer sense of humor is also icing to the cake. Most guys prefer C&F but I like to go Sweet&Funny. Once you're in a relationship that whole cocky mentality won't get you far.

Next, keep things exciting and fun when the frame of the interaction isn't a serious talk. There's a reason why a girl likes you, so be that person. When you peel more layers of yourself off for her, just add onto the personality you showed her. Think of it as a rolling snowball.

Keep her sexually happy. You keep the sexual chemistry alive she will definately have something to look foward too at the end of the day. It will give you a strong sense of confidence when you know you can fuck her the proper way and she will see this confidence. Women don't like unsure guys and they sure as hell don't like it when they're unsure of themselves in the bedroom.

Commitment. Balance her and your life. Don't make her your life and don't ignore her too much. Hahaha "too much". Depending on where you are in your relationship it is important to not always be available to her. Once the chase is gone you'll enter a deeper comfort level and sacrifice attraction for it. So switch it up. Take a roadtrip for a weekend with your friends and don't be available for that weekend. It'll all pay off in the end.

Every interaction she is with you in come off as confident. Alpha, that sort of shit. Every impression can change so it's important to maintain who you are from the start. A lot of us went from super alpha guys to AFC because they got lazy and comfortable. Ask around, so it's always important to stay sharp. Go practice openers and such when you have free time.

Stick to your word. She'll notice whether you're wishy washy or a strong man just by how you follow up on your words. Keep your promises, stick to your word.

Be understanding. Remember, she's human too, and she likes drinking and partying just like the rest of us so keep an open mind on this. Nobody likes a nagging little bitch and remember, you're a PUA with plenty of options, she cheats she goes. No need to stress.

I'll keep adding to this post but I gotta go for now.

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Great post man!

You really need to make the girl feel:

Repsected
Sexually stimulated
Alive!
Safe
Appriciated
Challenged (she will lose her respect for you otherwise)
Understood
Loved
Special

Anybody wanna add anything?

I am going to move this down to the relationship section.

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this is some good stuff right here. thanks.

i especially like the part about not becoming lazy and comfortable because you sacrifice attraction. that is exactly what happened in my last LTR. my next LTR will now be much more successful.

There ya go buddy, I fixed it for you.

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How should your phone game change when you are talking to your g/f? Specifically calling and texting (not looking needy). Im am always worried about calling my girlfriend too much or too little...What do you guys think?

that is a big question that can be answered in several different ways. Start a new thread

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Basically, I would say that when you are in a relationship with a girl you can call your GF... You are on your own... She is in comfort, has attraction and has chosen to be with you. A PUA mainly knows about building attraction and comfort where there is none or too little.

I would say... Trust your feelings.

Relationships are not a game.

A relationship is when the game stops... this manipulative game I mean.

It's still fun, but it gets more bonding, more involving... if you quit cheating and want a great relationship that is.

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When you have a girlfriend it's always nice to call her once a day, but dont push it. If she wants to initiate conversation after that 1 conversation, let her do it. Don't smother her and get her used to the idea that she deserves all this attention and massive amounts of phonecalls when she hasn't done anything to deserve it.

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good post man, im thinking about taking the plunge with my onsits and this helps, thanks

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this has put my mind at rest
ive been doing all of this the past couple weeks and i keep thinking maybe i should be running more game on her etc been a little paranoid about it... so thank you for helping me realise that its diferent

cheers fellas

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This was an interesting read! Great post!

Great post and this is coming from someone who took it a step farther and married his LTGF and now has 2 awesome kids with her. The one thing I would add is show her off esp when you run into an exgf they love it when you put them first and true on the throwing it up every once in a while especally on the where you have intimate one on one time that also makes it fun. It is also true humor helps a lot as well.