I'm called Monkey, and I'm new to the PUA scene. I was introduced, as many have been recently, by The Game, Style's book on the pick-up underground, and have been trying to find my own niche in Edmonton for the last week or so. I have four numbers, four kisses and a ten-minute make-out session under my belt thus far (in relation only to my sarging; previous, I've slept with ten women and made out with countless more). I've never been particularly bad with women, but I've never been particularly good either; what the community and its literature have taught me so far has been a good analysis of what has worked in the past for me. Looking back, I can see where I've fucked up with the women I've fucked up with, and gotten with the women I've gotten with, and analyze it based on PUA methods.

My own method is an amalgam of Mystery Method and Juggler Method; I'll start with some canned material if nothing situational presents itself (one of my favorites is "That tattoo/bracelet/shirt/black eye looks like it has a story behind it. Let's hear it."), and move into a more casual conversation making statements and asking questions as I feel it is appropraite. I've been sarging solo, with mixed results, and I'm looking for a decent wing in Edmonton, preferably someone who knows the basics. I've got plenty of book knowledge on the subject now; it's just a question of putting it to work more liberally.

Hey I am in Edmonton on my days off and maybe we can get together and share some stories and tips and go sarging. My email is tightwettowel@hotmail.com if you have MSN.

hey Monkey lol we use the same
system lol usualy a canned
opener

or one based on surroundings
then moove to more juggler style
methods like forcing IOI's and
SOI's it just seems more natural eh

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Absolutely! It's not that there's never something to talk about; if a girl has a great tattoo or some interesting jewelry, I'll start it off from there, but if there's nothing else going on, a good opener can be a lifesaver. And really, an opener is just to start a conversation. Whether or not seduction comes into it is secondary. In the last ten days, I've had more great conversations with people than I have in the previous three months.

So if nothing else, that's what this community has done for me. Getting past fear of approach is the most important thing anyone can do for themselves, I think.

Hello Monkey.

Instead of using canned openers or situational for that matter try this one:
"I like you. I would like to get to know you." But do it honest... and as a powerful man would do it.

Just try it and we'll talk about it later... and then just get to know her... talk to her as you would talk to someone who's already very close to you.

The advantage of this is that now you don't have to keep looking for things to attach openers too, or use some routine-based sarging... it's just natural to get to know her... and it's natural for you want to have a relationship with her since you're attracted... just convey this... that you are a man and have chosen her and that you are actually interested in her... and you will see her eyes glow...

maybe not from the first time, but as you practise this I assure things will start to change... and not only with women...

just go for what you want, no excuses...

miracles will happen

I'll tell you my story later on so you'll see how this attitude has helped me.

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you gotta have tight game to get away witht that opener!

what? being direct isn't the best way..

according to all the puas, being direct may usually only work on women who do not get approached constantly with the AFC "i like you please like me back" line. i've used that direct afc line more than any other in my life..and it sucks. i've been turned down, i've been told "let me think about it and i'll let you know" (ignored), any every other excuse a woman could use. my failure/success ratio with the direct approach is really shitty. but like Sorin said, "miracles will happen".

but of course i think some women might want men to approach in a direct way. showing that you like a woman only gives her power. some like power more than a challenge, i've noticed.

i haven't tested this of course but seriously i think you'd have more success walking up to her, being funny, and saying "hi, i have a really big willy".

this thread is old but we don't want any fellow afc on here being mislead.

Being assertive is paramount. Being upfront is not always the way. Never let a woman how you feel!

With good frame control through body language and voice tonality, being up front can work quite well. I've never field-tested this on HB10s but I have on HB9s.