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| Luau | PostPosted: Tue Sep 09, 2008 10:25 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Wed Aug 27, 2008 7:16 am Posts: 52 | | So me and like 4 girls and 5 guys sit down around a fire and just having drinking having a good time. I am leading the whole group with conversation with everything. I start out with asking a girl the wheelchair routine which went on for about 10 mintues within the whole group. Then I asked my friend next to me if he has any tattoos or piercings. I really didn't care what his answer was I just wanted to act like i had just started a conversation up with him and then from there i addressed the girls about what they thought was better looking on a guy tattoos or piercings. Then a couple more openers that i stacked.
Anyways somehow we got on the topic of getting married really young. The girls where sitting on one side of the fire in their own conversation and the guys were on the other side and we were talking about getting married really young when all of the sudden one of the girls probably an HB6.5 said exactly the words in a rude weird voice "um actually can we not talk about marriage cause im never going to get married ever" I was shocked and wondering in my head wtf just happened and I didn't even know she was involved in the guys group. So right after she said that I responded by saying "oh yea no problem because we weren't talking to you" in a joking manner with a laugh after the sentence. She looked at me and was appoled and replied by saying "wow ok asshole" and right after i said my sentence I just kept talking about the conversation and even though I heard what she said I just ignored her as if I didn't.
Now I know that it went terribly wrong and i wasn't trying to hook up with any of the girls there that night i was just practicing my group skills and being the AMOG which I totally was for sure. I was making everyone laugh and talk and it was just a good feeling. I just wanted to know if anyone had any feed back in what I should have done with the situation where the girl rudly interupted? I could tell she wanted all of the attention on her but when she said that but when she didn't get it she was furious and didn't talk to any of us the whole rest of the night.
Need Help Please. What could I have done?
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| TommyD | PostPosted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 3:16 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jul 20, 2007 8:17 pm Posts: 15 | | Yeah i can see where you can have trouble there. it sounds like an average girl with no self-esteem was putting a downer on the chat.
When that happens just cut to a new story, you let the conversation get to something that you didn't want to talk about so you should have cut to something new and stayed in control of the group. _________________ TAKE IT EASY!
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| Wharris1985 | PostPosted: Mon Sep 15, 2008 3:14 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Thu Sep 11, 2008 1:47 am Posts: 41 | | Yeah thats rough...You couldn't even joke around with her sarcastically. I think you actually handled it pretty good by saying you weren't even talking to her. I guess if that happened to me I would include her in the conversation ask her about it, and after she got over the bitchiness I woulda negged her a few times about it. But its hard to tell with out seeing the situation and how she was really acting. Sounds to me like she was just a bitch and there really wasn't anything to do about it lol....
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