Yo! Call me schneller, German for fast. I drive fast and street race. I go to college, I'm 20 and I'm an AFC

I recently finished reading The Game and read Double Your Dating last winter.

I amVery excited about this forum! My first PUA/seduction forum! I'm looking forward to making friends and interacting in this community.

What motivated me to sign up is a story I have with this girl.
LOL this is gona be so chumpy but whatever you guys should feel my frustration and tell me what you think about the situation.


There is this bitch who likes fast cars at my college's car club. I met her at a car club meet almost a year ago (I was a fucking wow nerd then and nervous as hell around people not to mention females). I was too pussy to say anything back and at around that time I bought and read Double Your Dating. Which to be honest made me confident enough around women to begin experimenting inviting them on dates and approaching the ones who gave me tons of IOI's. I think 70% of the attention I've been getting is because of the car I drive and the way I drive it. Which has nothing to do with my success, but my parents. Anyway a lot of time passed and I kept in touch with that chick. Then I invited her on a date last week and we made out after (First time I made out in United States) DYD and The Game definatly helped with the inner game. We hung out a few days later and I invited her to a party. We got pretty trashed there and then I drove her back to my place without her objecting and tried fucking her, but I was too drunk to keep it hard. She stroked it, sucked it rode it... I stuck it in her, she even let me go condomless but that didn't help rofl and we just cuddled and fell asleep.
Well like a fucking AFC I began to develop some feelings for this girl and they where fucking up my game and pissing me off cuz I couldn't keep my emotions under control. For the last 5 days I've been afc treating her by asking her to be my gf twice with an awkward face and shit like that. Basicly I got her home one more time after that night, we made out and I took her to my bed but this time she just lay there like a log and I couldn't get a fucking hard on again.

Alrite guys, excuse me for all the details, but this is who I am without masks and I honestly need advice. First off why can't I get hard? I havn't edaculated in a week prior to trying to fuck her.. is this normal?

Second thing is I realize I need to master my emotions, but all the reports and literature I've been reading so far are 97% about one nighters rather than relationships. Fuck I really wanted this girl to be my gf, but I think I fucked up good and she is avoiding coming to my place now. Its so fucking easy for women, all they do is lie around waiting to get fucked and do nothing to make you hard and then they laugh at you and believe its your fault.


Wow what a first post huh!?

See Yeah!

P.S. her face is an 8-8.5 and a body of a 9.

Hey schneller,

First of all, welcome to the pua forums. Hopefully you'll find your way through the forums alright and pick up some good material.

As for you're lady friend, and the erection problem, could be a bit of stress and thinking of sex a bit too hard (Obviously she's thinking of last time when you couldn't get it last time, there was some pressure on you). My advice would be to just let it come natural, try it again, and you'll see it'll work lol.

I noticed that you've got the theory of Game together, you've got some confidence and I believe you'll do very well. All i can offer you is some more books/ebooks and get some more knowledge into you.

here is a new book, worth almost $500. But for you, free ;P
Goodluck bro <3,

-Yuksec

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<3 I'm always interested in going out to clubs and picking up, so if ya in melbourne, PM me and we'll organise somthing <3

Thanks a lot Yuksec!

Hey schneller, let me first welcome you to the PUA forums, and tell you that we're here to help.

Okay, first off, the erection problem. Theres a whole laundry list of causes for what you describe, but I have a feeling that its one in particular: your mind(not to mention that you had whiskey-dick the first time). Honestly, as guys our minds often can't get out of their own way. Going off your description of yourself, I'm guessing that you haven't slept with too awful many women and I'm willing to bet you have a case of garden variety performance anxiety. Unfortunately, a good case of performance anxiety can sometimes be a catch-22, in that the most tried and true method of getting rid of it is having good sex.

Aside from this, you need to have some confidence and enter into the sexual encounter with an "I'm gonna rock your world" attitude instead of just saying your prayers and jumping out of the plane with no 'chute. May I suggest swallowing your pride and hooking-up with a couple practice girls? Not ugly or fat girls, just ones that not everyone would call hot and probably don't get much male attention. Unless you're hung like a tic-tac, you're almost guaranteed to get them off, and it never gets old hearing a girl moan and say things like "You're so big!," no matter how hot she is, and its an amazing confidence boost.

Outside your mind, there are things you can do to give yourself a better chance. Nitric Oxide is a vascular dilator, not to mention one of the primary mechanisms in the male erection. Its available as a supplement usually used by weight lifter to get more blood to the muscles while lifting and give them that veiny, pumped up look. Lo and behold it has the side-effect of also increasing blood flow to the penis and giving larger, harder erections ("veiny, triumphant fuckers" if you will.). If you smoke, quit. It hardens arteries and restricts blood flow to the penis. Caffeine is also detrimental as it releases adrenaline into the blood stream. Adrenaline is the active chemical in our primal human "Fight or Flight" response, and one of its effects is to shut off blood flow to the penis. You wouldn't want to be fighting a predator or running from a dinosaur with a raging hard-on now would you?

From a PU perspective, this particular girl is lost to you three times over at this point. You've DLV'd yourself twice by awkwardly asking her to be your girl, and again by failing to "rise" to the occasion, as it were. My personal opinion would be to avoid developing a case of oneitis over this girl. Just cut your losses and move on. Worst case, leave her alone for a while, educate yourself a little bit more, and try again at a later date. Hope you were able to glean something helpful from my long-winded response, and good luck buddy, you're gonna do just fine.

i wanna be like wildcat wen i grow up lol

nice 1

Thank you Wildcat78! Definatly learned from your post!