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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:13 am 
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I was gaming this HB8 in my univ and i was in the process of negging her.. I think I overdid it because a week ago, I went to McDonalds in front of my univ because of a group meeting for my PR class (I'm the leader :D).. And she was there with a common friend. She waved and smiled at me and for no stupid reason I ignored her, and when our common friend (who's also an HB8) greeted me, i greeted back and ignored my target yet again..

She always smiles at me whenever we see each other in the hallway but now it seems like I'm invisible or something although I know from her body language that she's doing it on purpose. And the thing is, another common friend (she's close to this friend and so am i) knows that i have intentions, and she's all out support for me(she's gonna be my wing)..

How could I get back the attention that she was giving me before so I could get back on track? A good thing about this girl is that most of the guys are intimidated by her so no one really approaches her..


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 10:23 am 
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Why did you ignore her as she was smiling at you? What were you thinking? :shock:

She ignores you now because you ignored her at McDonalds. The best thing you can do here is to walk to her and just say hi and restart gaming her.

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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 10:57 am 
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Why did you ignore her as she was smiling at you? What were you thinking? :shock:

She ignores you now because you ignored her at McDonalds. The best thing you can do here is to walk to her and just say hi and restart gaming her.

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Yea you should have smiled back but that is the past now...She is ignoring you to pay you back..Either like the guy above me said restart the game or the next time you catch her looking at you stick your tounge out at her and smile then walk over and talk to her lol...All is not lost with this hb man...Goodluck to ya....


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:39 am 
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aryt, thanks guys.. Yeah, I might do what bigjamiemac said.. XD

I think I'll start again or whatever.. She looks at me from afar.. THat must mean something.. :o


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:44 am 
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Yeah sticking the tongue out if someone is looking at you works incredibly well


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PostPosted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:52 am 
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Yeah sticking the tongue out if someone is looking at you works incredibly well
how so? sorry for the n00b question.. :D


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Yeah sticking the tongue out if someone is looking at you works incredibly well
how so? sorry for the n00b question.. :D
It is funny and a playful way to acknowledge them. Usually they will be receptive and laugh then you are gold to go in and start talking.


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When she walks past, arm out, stop her, pull her to face you, look at her, say,

"hey, how have YOU been?" and smile, smile smile! With the intent that you're going somewhere, but wanted to reconnect with her quickly.

She may be startled, but also may apologize to YOU saying "oh sorry i've just been really busy lately..." which can be interpreted as, "I thought you didn't like me, but suddenly you stop me and show me you care, and I was unprepared, but thank you so much, hey game me more. Moremoremore!"

Lol


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Hm tough question
modestly interested is a great way. but completely disinterested is not.
And this can look like a real hard rejection from your side to her. You should try to regain her attention.
ask for lunch for example



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keep it simple like the rest of the guys are saying.
stare at her and when she looks at you stick your tongue out.
i like that one. or stare intently and then when she looks look quickly away and smile. make sure u smile the whole time so she knows your playing.
now if u dont have her number this can be fixed easily.
go up to her. say hey whats up? shell say blah blah blah.
you say yeah we havent really talked in a while.
she sayd blah blah blah.
you say. well yeah cause u never text me anymore.
she says. i never did.
you. well maybe you should start :)
her. well give me your number and well see.

thats how i would play it out personally :)
or something of that variation. then take it from there.

now you have your number and youve reshown intrest.
the rest is yous my friend.
good luck
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aryt.. thanks guys.. I'ma do just that..


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Okay, here's the update:

My pivot set up for me and and my target to meet and introduce us even though we've been already introduced to each other.. This's what happened..

[I'm going to try to be verbatim as much as possible]
Pivot and target together, I walk up to them and talk to my pivot for something, she answers then introduces me to my target.

Pivot: Oh, by the way, this is [target], he's DR..
DR: Oh yeah, we've met already.. *smiles*
HB: Yeah, he interviewed me for the school paper.. *smiles back*
DR: Yep, but seems like we never talked after that..
Pivot: Hey, I'm going to the comfort room for a sec., can I leave you two for a bit?

Both of us nodded, my pivot leaves, leaving the two of us alone giving me the opening..

DR: So, how are you? I never got the chance to talk to you again..
HB: Yeah, I always see you around, you looked so busy..
DR: Yeah, thesis is killing all us seniors..

From here, we talked for about five minutes, everything went smooth, my pivot arrived, then I said that I was going to the library and have to leave them.. I left the two of them and went to the library. Then during lunch at the cafeteria, I saw her again, this time alone.. I sat 5 tables from her and waited for her to look at me (i wasn't looking at her, peripheral vision) when she looked at me, I turned to her, paused, then stuck my tongue out like what you guys said, then looked away for a bit then smiled. I heard her laugh so I looked at her again, she was smiling so I approached. We talked for about an hour, just plain friendly chat so I guess I've fixed it..

But the thing is, she's going to be the college's rep in an inter-college fashion show in another college and she's going to be her course's muse for this upcoming Mr. and ms. sports festival next week.. Now, as muse, she has already sealed the competition, and if she wins this inter-college fashion show, she'll be off the roof..

How can I adjust when these things happen? I already had a background check on her, and found out that she's one of those who experienced that 'ugly duckling' metamorphosis.. Will these events change/boost her self-esteem? How would it affect her perception about guys? How do I adjust my game? I also found that I'm more successful being cocky funny, how do I adjust? Need yer inputs on this..


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