My name will be JonnyBoy. I am really only here cause I read that book The Game and it was kind of interesting and thus here I am. I don't have a lot of trouble with girls, all my best friends since middle school have been girls and for the last 4 years I have almost always been in a relationship. My weakness, I would say, is my ability to meet random strangers, which I suppose is what the game is all about. I also never seem to get the most attractive girls but settle for 8's usually. That's it.

welcome Johnnyboy,

you sound like you are in a good position in life. AA (approach anxiety) is easy to overcome. Just DO some approaches. Ask simple, benign questions to complete strangers. Approach some guys if you feel weird about doing it to chicks.

im serious, go talk to 4 random people TODAY! you dont need more than a casual response from them, just something.


anyway, last bit of advice. I'm new to the forum... but the forum is what you make of it. HUGE resource that can be taken advantage of you.

Catch you later

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I do what I can, but I know I can do better.

I'm not too worried about talking to guys, I do it pretty often and don't have a problem getting to know other guys. One thing that often happens when I'm talking to a group with an attractive girl in it is that I tend to focus a little too much on her less attractive friends and eventually end up alone with one of them instead of the one I'm aiming for. Oh ya, the other catch right now is...I'm living in Spain for the next 6 months. The girls here are very attractive but don't speak that much english. Me trying to hit on girls in spanish is about the equivalent to putting on a darth vedar mask and trying to make friends. I have yet to find a suitable solution to this.

When i was in sophmore year of university I spent 6 weeks in Latin America. At this point in my life I was just hit and miss when it came to women. Anyway, Latin America was filled with lots of hits. I remember asking for spanish practice, often started by pointing to various objects and getting the spanish. This can quickly lead to lips / kisses / whatever. Castellano (spain spanish) chicks and latin american girls are very dif though. The latter have much more of an innate respect for N. Americans than the spainards imo.

try it tho.. see if it works.

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I do what I can, but I know I can do better.

welcome to the forum