Hey Guys me again, I got a little stumped on the weekend. In a crowd of girls, one had asked me if I had my own place, I said "why you wanna come over" she said no we just don't mess with guys that don't have there shit together. I said well that sounds kind of gold-diger-ish and I'm gonna take my leave and It's was nice meeting you guys. The fact is I'm 25 years old and i dont have my own place im in the process of gettin my shit together becasue in my past I have'nt made too many good decisions but I'm fixing them now. My question is what can I say or do to combat this question and circumstance.

You could get your own place for starters. Haha.

Seriously, though. Fuck 'em. I used to get plenty of chicks (off campus) when I was in my frat house. It's not a big deal if you don't make it a big deal. What she gave you was a shit test, and while you were kind of defensive, I'd say you passed with the "you're a golddigger" line.

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

thanks Impact and June, I apprciate that I that and I had no idea she was giving me a shit test im glad you pointed it out and thanks for the reply man Im going to use that till I get my own place.