seems like you just need to put a method to your madness.
what books have you read? day twos can be hard... i feel your pain. I amcurrently having an issue with this girl I # closed on an airplane. I credit this forum, all PUArtistry material i have read and my dedication to improve my PUSkills for even talking to this hot chick who sat next to me. 1 year ago, that never would have happened. I would hvae smiled at her and HOPED somehow she would end up in my bedroom. The bedroom bit hasnt happened, yet

, but it is at least a possibility.
i consider that HUGE progress.
Anyway, i think you just gotta take a few breaths and analyze what you are doing. Apply the scientific method here - observe, hypothesize (here in the forum), experiment, conclude [no clue if that is the actual scientific method

, but whatever.. haha]