For someone with a form of autism (high-functioning... most the times nobody guesses I have any biological social issues), I have come far in interacting with other humans, especially girls. I know how to throw down a challenge, be challenging/difficult in my words and behavior, and ignite imagination.

Now that I'm building rapport with others, I'm starting to think about just how much of a toll it takes on my social energy. I'm not going to use dumb labels like AFC on myself, as it gets nobody anywhere (though Mystery and Style from what I can tell have a lot of great material that makes sense).

But I am frustrated. I have to compensate for lack of social savvy by consciously doing everything. It's tiring. When I meet a girl, get her email, I want to go home and not even interact with her for a while because I need to re-energize and be able to re-enter into the paradigm I met her in (if that makes sense). Two-Three attraction builders a day is all I can do before I take a break.

So something needs to change. There needs to be a form of efficiency born from minimalism. I want to be able to not put forth as much effort so to conserve social energy. The seduction community is a convoluted mess these days, and we need to find the diamond buried under all of this bullshit, so we're not killing ourselves with continual trial/error.

Does anyone have any suggestions for any openers/methods for this?

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Thanks for nothing, guys.

Heya Galactus,

I have no experience with autism, but with myself it gets easier as long as i practice. And most important of all, it has to be fun, not tiresome.

Keep at it, you'll do great!