So this girl I hooked up with the other night, told her friend that she doesnt want anything serious right now. Everytime we hang out, we usually go to parties and she always ends up laying on me, or my arm around her or something. My friend said that this girl doesn't hook up with many guys. So is this just a random fun little hook up thing going on, or will it turn to something? I would just hate to slowly get one-itis with this girl, and then have her just like move on or whatever. How can I keep hooking up with her, and just not have any feelings for her? Shes truly a 8.5 to a 9 on looks, and a 10 on personality. I always have fun hanging with her too.

Does she only hang out with you when its a convenience to her? Does she allow you to tag along with her to parties hosted by her aquaintences? Does she always tell you that she likes you but is never emotionally invested enough to give you some kind of idea of your relationship status? If so, keep your apparent need and actual need of her at a minimum if you want to come out with your dignity in tact.

Theres a chance shes jaded and has trust issues, which is not uncommon, but Ive also had girls that are users and do what they can to make you sexually and emotionally interested so they can have some kind of "hookup."

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