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PostPosted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 2:58 pm 
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Hi guys,,

I have a mate who is a model and is always getting complimented by women on his looks, but still this doesnt help him get women,, makes things alot easier but he still am lacking women, I would like to know how pick up differs for the models of us all,,

also if a woman compliments you on your looks, how should you respond? do you compliment her?

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 4:25 pm 
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yeah, itll be a lil bit easier for models but not much lollz


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What I've experienced, is that I usually get alot of looks, proximity and approach invitations. So good looks make the approaching easier.

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Okay what examples of cocky funny remarks would you suggest Hobbit?

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I believe that initiative is the main factor in success whether you are good looking or not.

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Well, if she likes you, that's Attraction part of the game gone. Strike up a normal conversation with lots of Kino/flirting, perhaps?

The normal looking guys have to 'spark' attraction, whereas good looking guys already have it. You start one step ahead - that's about all that differs imo. Just make sure to be sociable etc. respect people. Most people dislike pretty boys on an ego trip.


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Well, if she likes you, that's Attraction part of the game gone. Strike up a normal conversation with lots of Kino/flirting, perhaps?

The normal looking guys have to 'spark' attraction, whereas good looking guys already have it. You start one step ahead - that's about all that differs imo. Just make sure to be sociable etc. respect people. Most people dislike pretty boys on an ego trip.
Hey, thats good shit.

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Hey with respect to the question id like to address it by saying that women don't want a pretty boy. They want to be the once that stands out and catches everyone’s eye, ie be the good looking one. What they want in their man is to look hot and act it.

Translating female to male language hot means someone who takes care of their grooming, who looks cool and fun to be around, has a unique image, doesn’t just blend into the crowd. Someone refreshing to talk to, interesting and sociable with others.

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if you look good, women expect you to have more game as well...

if you dont have the level of game that they expect from your looks, they see you as an even bigger loser. Why? Because you are weak even though you have an extra weapon (your looks).

lets say 2 guys fight, 1 with a weapon and 1 bare fisted.. but the bare fisted one wins... who would be cooler?? and what a loser the guy with the weapon will be!

women would choose an ugly man with strong social skills any time over a goodlooking one with weak social skills.

so looking good can be a curse as well, you think you have a weapon, but you dont even know how to use it... after a while you think you need to learn how to fight bare fisted, but why the hell would you need to learn that: you always have your weapon on you and its always loaded....
just learn to use the weapon...

you need to learn how to pump the initial attraction that the looks show off in the first second... and suck them in your frame from the first second (the first second that the looks are still important, because after first impression women dont give shit about looks anymore), accuse them of being just another one who's checking you out or anything else thats fun

remember this:
when you show a girl a photo of an ugly guy and a photo of a goodlooking guy and ask her which one she likes... she will not choose the goodlooking guy because of his looks, but she will choose him because of the fact that his social skills are probably more advanced than the ugly guy and that his personality probably THINKS that he is hot shit.... because his looks have allowed him to develop those skills in life...

now.. on the first second that she would find out that the goodlooking guy does not feel that he is hot shit, she will see him as an imposter...and then she's done with him... NEXT

somebody wrote here that goodlooking guys can get away with more errors in their game, but thats not true!!!
ugly guys can make more errors in their game, because women dont expect them to perform flawless...
goodlooking guys are not allowed to make errors in their game, because women expect them to have had enough social experience because of their looks to perform flawless...

and performing flawless is not as easy as just being super cocky btw, because that would make you too arrogant if you are goodlooking.... so imagine how hard it is to find the right way to use the weapon properly!


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if a woman compliments you on your looks...

if you say "thanks" it breaks the convo immediately, because what the hell is there to say after that. you could go into a routine after that, but then you are entertaining her and she didnt deserve that yet.
(saying thanks and ignoring her after that works sometimes btw if you meet her again later)

better to go into C&F:
"so you were checking me out?"
"my mother always told me that girls who go after guys for looks alone are bad girls! you probably come straight out of jail! how many years has it been? is that why you are such a frustrated stalker?

then dont overdo the C&F. just give her attraction a little extra pump with 1 or 2 or maximum 3 C&F lines or negs and then go straight into qualification right after. you can mix comfort with the qualification (alternate a little from both), because that way she will see you as human/sincere (comfort/rapport/fluff-talk is the way to avoid her thinking that you are arrogant).

too much C&F or negs coming from a goodlooking guy is wrong, because thats like fighting with your hands when you have a weapon, it will show that you dont have much social experience and will show your hidden insecurity


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I also get opened a lot for my hair.
"OMG, your hair is amazing, can I touch it?" Geez, I actually lose respect for girls who open me like that and have started feeling the same way that a girl must feel who is hit on for her looks.

I've actually had a girl start stroking my hair without saying anything - from behind. It scared the shit out of me at the time, I jumped a mile. Negged her for it. She loved me. ;)

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I also get opened a lot for my hair.
"OMG, your hair is amazing, can I touch it?"
"Buy me a drink ;)" I would LOVE THIS! Playfully say that, wink and look at her as if she is SO TOTALLY IN if she does this. If she does, bust her chops for buying you a drink just so she could touch you! Sets up a nice frame. If she says no, flirt and say "fine, no drinky drinky, no touchy touchy" etc. Keep it fun!


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if a woman compliments you on your looks...

if you say "thanks" it breaks the convo immediately, because what the hell is there to say after that. you could go into a routine after that, but then you are entertaining her and she didnt deserve that yet.
(saying thanks and ignoring her after that works sometimes btw if you meet her again later)
Lol. If she compliments you, and you like her, say "WOW. Who are YOU?" as if you've just seen the most gorgeous sight on Earth. No need for routines if she approaches you for your looks. Plus, saying WOW who are you when she's already expressed interest is similar to the concept of being able to compliment her, once she's attracted. Same thing.


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Lol. If she compliments you, and you like her, say "WOW. Who are YOU?" as if you've just seen the most gorgeous sight on Earth. No need for routines if she approaches you for your looks. Plus, saying WOW who are you when she's already expressed interest is similar to the concept of being able to compliment her, once she's attracted. Same thing.
I dont think its that easy... what you say is a recipe for losing all attraction. it tells me you dont have enough field experience (as a good looking guy)

girls coming to you for your looks are always a bunch of shit-testers....
if you would tell these shit-testers: "wow who are you?" its like saying: oh yesss finally a girl!!
why the hell would YOU be impressed by just her looks (since "wow who are you" can only be looks related). Even though she judges you now on looks alone, YOU don't: you are ALPHA, you should have TONS of even hotter girls around you (or pretend that that is the case)
you beta yourself by saying "wow", it says your desprate, frustrated and needy

the only way to say "wow who are you?" if you make it obvious its a lie what you just said.. (that would be C&F as hell, but its has the risk that she's too stupid to understand that its a lie, although you could make fun of her even more maybe in that case.... *if she is able to understand its a lie in the end*...)


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if opened by a girl for your looks: you could go straight into qualification by saying "who are you" (without the wow). more like "who the hell are you".
you can do this with the more shy/timid types

but if the girl is not too shy....before i go and qualify i always like to pump the attraction a bit more with at least one line of C&F or neg, just to show my frame of mind. everything you say after that will seem even more charged if you do that.

actually the girl sends you signals if you should go for comfort/qualification talk or for C&F talk.
if shy > avoid c&f and go for comfort/qualification
if bitchy/powerful > go c&f and bring out the little girl in her and when reached go for comfort/qualification
let the girl's signals help you in which direction to go, but you always keep leading

sometimes after too much comfort talk (=bunch of fluff talk) you notice that the sexual charge is dissapearing and things getting boring... then inject some C&F or negs at every window of opportunity you get, to get the sexual charge back...
so its not a linear system that you do A2(C&F and other DHV stuff)>A3(qualification>C1(comfort/rapport), all after each other, they overlap and sometimes get mixed up...


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