Response to people who "call you out"



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PostPosted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:14 pm 
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Sup guys.

How exactly should I respond to somebody who's calling me out; not on PUA, perhaps, but in the sense that I'm "too arrogant" and that he doesn't agree with my opinions or beliefs. I thought I would keep a positive frame and spice-up a phrase that basically states, "If you don't like what I have to say, you aren't being enforced to believe any of it."

I was thinking I wouldn't get too emotional (not being effected by others), and keep it short and sweet in a phrase that keeps my dominant frame.

Any help, tips, or suggestions?

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:31 pm 
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"stop picking on me, Im only little" lol


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 7:46 pm 
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"stop picking on me, Im only little" lol
Pea eye, from reading a few of your reponses you seem to be giving advice which in my opinion isnt very helpful. I would suggest you spend some more time learning before you start giving advice.

What you want to do is avoide getting called out. If people are calling you arrogant you are probly being a little over confident.
Exactly wording will change on situation but you want to give across a feeling that you value his opinion, but disagree.
You also want to renforce the positves (he is paying close to what your saying) but also ignore the negatives.

In regards to your example of being too arrogant.
"i am glad you analysing everything i say but personaly i dont see it. *new topic*"


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 8:10 pm 
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What do you perceive as the negative results from being "called out"?


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 12:59 am 
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When someone calls you out, it's almost always because they are jealous. When I say 'they' I'm referring to being called out by another guy. They want to be the one leading the group and the only way to make themselves look better is to make you look bad. Which, in reality, doesn't help their image. It just makes them look like a kill-joy. Depending on how you are called out i.e. "This guy is totally trying to pick you up" one guy saying this to your target about you. In that instance just brush it off. A good come back would be something like, "Me? Her? She's like my little sister!" After that, you should move on to dominating the guy calling you out. But I do recommend the post above, just tell them that's great that they are paying so much attention to you even if you don't see their point. The main point is, never let anything shake your confidence. That's what getting called out is about. To shake you, to make you show weakness. Because once you do, it's really hard to get your standing back. In cases of being extremely called out, I would just leave. Tell them they are being rude and walk away. If they don't want to enjoy your company, then find someone who will. Period. Shalom.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:45 am 
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When someone calls you out, it's almost always because they are jealous. When I say 'they' I'm referring to being called out by another guy. They want to be the one leading the group and the only way to make themselves look better is to make you look bad. Which, in reality, doesn't help their image. It just makes them look like a kill-joy. Depending on how you are called out i.e. "This guy is totally trying to pick you up" one guy saying this to your target about you. In that instance just brush it off. A good come back would be something like, "Me? Her? She's like my little sister!" After that, you should move on to dominating the guy calling you out. But I do recommend the post above, just tell them that's great that they are paying so much attention to you even if you don't see their point. The main point is, never let anything shake your confidence. That's what getting called out is about. To shake you, to make you show weakness. Because once you do, it's really hard to get your standing back. In cases of being extremely called out, I would just leave. Tell them they are being rude and walk away. If they don't want to enjoy your company, then find someone who will. Period. Shalom.

Hell ya, best advice yet. But I have to add on something: After a guy calls you out.
You: (look at target girl, roll your eyes and look indifferent) extend your hand to your target (if possible) and say "Lets just go talk over there,"
Don't ask "Do you wanna go talk over there," extend your arm as if you are expecting her to take it. If you are in a car or some captive audience, just try to make him look silly "Thats not a nice way to ask for lessons," or change the subject "O damn, was that a Ferrari?!"

The whole point is to make sure that you still have her by the end of the night, if you can roll it off, it raises your value and lowers his, so you amog him in a sense.


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 5:48 am 
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I might be new to these forums but one thing I can handle is being called out, in fact I welcome people to "blow up my spot." When people call you out, one of two things are true
1) You are being cocky, and not cocky funny.... just cocky, stop that, seriously. I find that cocky people are always going to be called out, because cockiness is attractive to women, and dangerous to us men. Don't be overtly cocky to the point where your being, basically, a bag of douche.
2) They are jealous of you. I've noticed that I only get called out by the kids who match. You know these kids, they look like abercrombie models and wear the polos. These kids see you as a threat, and in that vein they want to destroy you. In this war, as with many, the key to victory is solider moral. When you destroy a soldiers moral, you destroy their will power, you take away their inner flame, you make them doubt, and as soon as doubt creeps in, the battle is over.
But fear not my fellow countrymen! For Max Power has the solution!
One up them. Take it to the highest level possible. obviously follow the techniques for AMOGs, yet if this doesn't seem to work, always one up these fuckers. If they comment on your shirt, tell them to fuck their mother, become Dirty Harry, become Steve McQueen. Always be more aggressive than them. Even if they are bigger, they should respect you, as long as you MEAN IT. If you sheepishly say something, no one will take you for real, they will laugh at you and you WILL get your ass kicked. My father taught me many things, the one that stuck was "Never take shit from anyone, ever." Write this quote on your fucking mirror if you have to, and LIVE this quote, because it will help you in every facet of life.

I understand some of this might just seem like the ramblings of a fool, but if you need me to extrapolate, just ask.
Also, the posts above mine are far superior to mine, just look at mine as a footnote, and remember, "Never take shit from anyone, ever."
Peace out


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PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 5:58 am 
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"too arrogant"

Yeah I'm a dick what can I say, gulty as charged!

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