Hey guys. This is gonna be a lot shorter than my previous stuff so if you have any questions, fire away and I'll answer as soon as I can. First of all, I want to make clear that you'll need good conversation skills and a decent grasp of neg theory and push/pull to really make the best of this. It's not totally necessary but it helps to play around with her and send some mixed signals. The key is to just be confident, relaxed and have fun with her. Don't take this shit too seriously. If you approach with a little C&F attitude it really goes a long way.

So, the formula is as follows: approach -> intro -> banter -> time constraint -> number -> arrange day 2 -> split

Simple, right? Let's examine.

1. Approach.

By far the hardest part. Or so you'd think! When you see how simple step 2 is, you really have no reason not to just do it.


2. Intro.

You've been doing this with your friends, family, and work colleagues all your life. It's called "Hi". All you have to do is approach with a warm smile, say hi and ask how she's doing today. This is simple, has no way of backfiring and it gives you a look into her personality straight away. There is no way you could possibly be afraid to ask her how she's doing, is there? If you feel uncomfortable for any reason, eject with style! Just say, "Great! I actually just wanted to get the time... I mean seriously, nobody ever asks how you're doing first. It seems so cold!" or something along those lines. Then you can leave. That would be a fantastic warmup approach and leave you with a nice feeling inside.


3. Banter.

Depending on her response to asking how she is, you can banter with her a little. You can tease her for being too cheery, such as "you are WAY too happy... me too!" and give her a high 5! Instant rapport right there. You can tease her for giving you a boring response ("good", "I'm ok" etc) and ask if she wants a thesaurus for her birthday. Use your loaf! I've never had a negative response but if she says she's not doing too good or whatever then I'd probably just tell her if she promises to lighten up a little then she can come do something fun. You can ask her what she's been up to today and play around with that aswell, do some negging or push/pull stuff with her.


4/5. Time constraint & number.

After you chat for a little bit, tell her you were on your way to meet friends (or whatever you're actually doing) and you have to get going. From here, just say "but yeah, next time I'm around here we should do something". This will naturally transition into a nice number close.


6. Arrange day 2.

This should be done while she enters her details in your phone so there is no weird silence. Tell her you'll call her later and let her know your plans for the week so she can join you some time.


7. Split.

I always like to get a hug because it makes a really good connection, and I can tell how into me she actually is so I know whether to expect a flake or not. It's up to you though, if you're not entirely comfortable doing it then it's no biggie.

Remarkably close to my style.... ...wait are you that guy who's been following me while I'm sarging?

I've recently overhauled my game. Keeping it simple and relaxed is the best way to go with day game, it's already a layed back enviroment, I've found pumping her state with routines can work but often seems false and surreal at moments. It's only natural to keep thing light.

I still use routines but only on a must do basis, if I do use a routine it'll be like the "ring finger" routine and that'll be all I do in terms of routines for that set.

Centering round simplicity and a chilled out frame is the way to go!

Nice call daziel.

damn playa it isnt as hard as everyone makes it seem.

you got it down. now its my turn to get it down.

after all I am going to be the "kobe" of PUA. no jokes there.

Heya bro,

I like this,

It's a good simple system. Most Daygame is actually easy.

If you have comfort you'l get the number,

Something i do is actually reverse these two so she has a reason for the number and the day 2 in place before the close

4/5. Time constraint & number.


6. Arrange day 2.

Having said that it doesn't really matter.

Nice job!

AFC Adam

Good call Adam. I usually have no solid ideas of what I'm doing throughout the week though, so it's easier for me to call her and let her know when I'm doing something she'd actually wanna tag along for. That being said, sometimes I'll just call her and tell her I'm chilling out with a few friends and she'll come along with a couple of people, all depends on logistics really.

Yeah makes sense to me.

Logical stuff man!

Well done! I love it, everyone should take some pointers if they're struggling with daygame.

AFC Adam,

I think this is the part that many guys struggle with. They will say "ok cool, ill give you a call some time this week" and leave it at that. But that puts so much more pressure on you when you call. Setting up a more concrete day 2 not only, well makes it more concrete, but gives you a purpose when you call her. It will lead the discussion in a purposeful direction and since you know where it is going, you should feel more comfortable about your phone game.

Well put, home slice! I try to put as little emphasis on openers as possible when dealing with new guys because they tend to focus so much on the initial approach that they lose their bearings. They run through the opener over and over in their heads and it actually holds them back from doing the approach, then when they finally do it they freeze up after the opener.