Ok i suppose i have to start by saying im an australian living in canada! Even now there has not been a day since my arrival that i dont get complimented on my accent. Girls do love it and i have the best ice breaker in the world! However i cannot get my head into gear and take advantage of it. So this is my story!

I am 21 years old and like to think im not the ugliest guy in the world. In my younger years of being a reckless 18 -19 year old i always did well for myself when it came to meeting women. When i was 20 i decided to travel the world. So i broke up with my girlfriend at the time (a 24 year old irish backpacker) and started my travels at a summer camp in the great land of the US of A then headed to Canada. Let me say again north american girls love the accent and last year i kid you not i took a girl home every night i went to the bar. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. It was also on this trip i met this girl. She was one of only 3 girls i didnt sleep with when i took them home, however we had a fun night and lets leave it at that. When i parted ways i made sure i gave her my email address (im traveling i dont have a phone) to add me on msn. It wasnt until i got back to australia until she added me to her contact list (about 1-2 weeks later). She apparently spelt my name wrong and after ribbing one of my friends about how i blew her off she realised her mistake.


So that was my first trip. It was the most fun i ever had in my life. Needless to say when i got home i was bored out of my mind. What also suck about home is when i got back my girlfriend left me. We had both moved on, she had met another guy and was heading back to ireland and i had obviously met other women. While it sucked for me cause i wanted a girl to keep me on my toes i dont hold it against her, and we still keep in touch.

I also have this theory with girls. While i havent had the most serious relationships in my life, i have worked out that the best way to get over a girl is to sub her with another girl. This is what happen with the first girl. Me and Michelle ( thats her name) started to get close via the interent. Now hwile at the time i felt like the biggest nerd liking her cause its was over the internet, it was nice to have a girl fancy you and show interest when i was still upset over my irishn gf. She also told me she had feelings for me and begged me to come back. We started to become so close that we talk about waiting for each other. However after about 3 - 4 months of waiting for me to get myself organised a month before i arive shes mets a guy and they end up going out. While i was at the point of no return with my booked flights i was going no matter what so i just bit the bullet and went along with my plans. So i get to canada and surpise her, she was happy to see e and we discussed we should be friends. As much as hated the idea i went along with it. Not more than a week later she was having problems with her bf. We started making out a couple of times during the period but they patch things and dated for another month. Again i gave her nothing and just accepted it. I did this as my way of freezing her out. Now thay have broken up and again and she saying how glad she is we are friends. How do i break this! I really want to nail this girl but everytime i stop freezing her out she runs away again!

Thanks guys for reading the whole post, i hope i didnt bore anyone.
Deanoman

go out with her. seige the opertunity to kino her and move in for a kiss close doing the 90/10

ride it out like its natural.

thats what i'd do.

i'm sure others would be different.

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Its funny you mention that. Ive tired to do that. It didnt really do off. However she will beg me to come over. And the second i start to get close i sense alot of nerous energy from her.

I honestly believe she wants me, i can tell because her best friends adore me and tell me i have to hang out with her more. But like i said when i start being more than friends withn this one she really backs off and starts giving me excuses. I have a theory that she likes me however she really likes her ex bf. So she getting confused on what she wants. So she starting to freeze up cause she doesnt want to ruin it with either of us. I dont know!

Ok, im still trying with this one guys. We are still friends! I need some options guys im running out. Ive tired the cocky funny guy, freezing her out, getting her friends to love me and tell her she is an idiot for not being with me. But after attempts to get her to come out with me to the bar or somewhere other than her house to hang out, she gives me excuses and goes to the pub with her ex! Now im not a AFC, ive done this before however it seems like i just cant crack this one. I have another theory, however its might sound stupid to some. When i first got to canada, i wasnt really doing much game on her. Just being myself. She seemed to respond to that, we were making out and wheels were in motion. The second i start doing things like freezing her out she started to get this nerous energy when i was around her. Could the game of spoiled this one, by making her feel like i was trying to use her! Any theories would be welcomed guys

You might try finding something, anything that she hasn't done before. Then take her somewhere she hasn't been before for this new experience. Bombard her with unusual and unknown stimuli. This will help put her in a different frame of mind. Hopefully detach herself from her normal self who is confused and hard to get. Behave like you would on any date. Throw all your best routines at her and pile on the sexual tension. Don't give her any kisses or hugs, etc until you have warmed her up nicely. With all this going on she will hopefully believe, in the moment, that you are definetly the guy for her, and she will want to express this in some way. Get as far as you can with her - do something a little naughty if you have to. Just don't break the mood!!

I think if you can f-close her once then the rest is easy. And even if you don't get too far on the above date at least she will have a very special time with you. And it will be a sensation specifically associated to you as it was all new. This will be a great anchor for future attempts. Hope this helps!

IMO if she gets drunk around me i think i can pull her, however i think she knows this and trys to avoid me, hence why if i do this date thing or that something special (now i know getting drunk may not be special, but having drinks in most social settigns is the most enjoyable time for anybody) she will get her defences up and knock be back politly. For instant, i was talking to her the other day and she ask me what i was doing tonight, and i was * well i really want to go to the pub and have a drink tonight, been working all day and dessrve one, however no one wants to go with me, do you want to go to the bar for a drink* shes then like *Um no ive got to work tomorrow, you should just come over here and chill if you want*. But its always the same, for the last 2 months she just knocks back my ideas! I have an idea, now whle one of my best friends back home, whos a girl doesnt like the idea thinking it will drive the her back in her exs arms. However i need to know what you guys think. Its simple, meet another girl, start seeing her and make michelle (the girl im trying on)jealous.

it seems like you have onitis, I think you dont need to meet another girl to make michelle jealous but you need to meet another girl to realise that there are so many amazing girls out there. I think she will realise if you move on that shes missed something and you definately will be on the upper hand as it seems she has it at the moment. Man why do you really care about this one girl when there are so many amazing women in the world?? think about it