Couple of opens into it yesterday in the park and then I started hitting it. MOstly doing the dyd method of opener, small talk, time restraints and asking for email addresses. I got 3 email from asian hb 7-8's ( i only like asian women) after an open, some small talk and "i gotta go catch up w some friends but u have a good energy about u-do have email"?
Got 3 emails and almost a 4th from the cutest one of all but although she was laughin and havin a good time w me-she insisted that she couldnt becasue shes involved with some. i couldnt get past it but tried (lookin back i couldve tried more).

So now I'll send them an email "hey there, it was nice talkin to u in the park yesterday. wat r u up to this week? wanna meet for a cup of something wonderful and some good conversation"?

Is anyone havin any success with this method? Any thoughts or feedback?

If it were me I would defininetly not use....

"hey there, it was nice talkin to u in the park yesterday. wat r u up to this week? wanna meet for a cup of something wonderful and some good conversation"?

You're sounding overly interested and not very confident.

I would say something like, "HEY! Randomly meeting someone in the park, what an interesting way to kick off a relationship:) Unfortunetly I'm pretty much busy all week long, but we should defininetly pick up where we left off, hows next saturday? "

That is not verbatium to DYD phrase, nor do I truncate my words in emails, but I use it all of the time.

I have gotten a bunch of interesting responses to this phrase with 80% turing into 'dates'.

I have never had the follow-up phrase work with no response to the above though.


Here is the body of an actual email chain. Start from the bottom.

Someone has quite the ego! I actually wanted to use the restroom, but the line was too long. And if remember correctly, it was you who did the attacking, but whatever makes you sleep at night . Rabbits are too cute to boil...

Shandra

To bad. Though, I will say that I thought that after you followed me to the bathroom and attacked me in public that I would have a stalker on my hands and have to always look over my shoulder.... Might end up with a boiled rabbit in a pot.

Hit me up when you get back and have some time. Maybe we will hang out.
Valence


It was nice to meet you too. Unfortunately, I cannot meet you anytime this week. I'm going out of town for a conference later this week and have to prepare. But thanks for the invite:) Hope you have a great week and a better weekend
Shandra


Hey, it was nice meeting you yesterday. What are you up to this week? Would you like to join me for a cup of something wonderful and some stimulating conversation. Talk to me.
VALENCE


She turned out to be one of the more fun HBs that I had. I always try to think of a good subject line.

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What kinda "conversion" #'s are average for an email reply from women? 20%, 50%, more, less??? What about average #'s converting an email reply from a women into a date?

Its just good to know what to expect...

If I had to give an overall answer 80%.

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Nop nop

Let's try this again

PUA: It was nice meeting you, do you have an email? yeah? great, write it down for me (always have a pen and paper, if you don't, hit yourself)

as she's writing down her email, say "write down your number too"

because by psychology it's a lot easier to go from the email to the number, than from nothing to the number,

it's VERY important to ask for the number, she will feel more COMPLIANCE (look this up in the PUA LOUNGE) toward you, and this will work for your favor later on

once she writes down her number, say "is this your real number?"

if she hesitates, say "look, write down your real number, it's ok, i'll just call you TEN TIMES A DAY, okay... maye eleven, since youre a cute lil bunny"

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ok, you said bye

you get home, and next day

you write her or even better text her (which you could casually ask her if she has texting)

"It was nice meeting you yesterday, what are you up to this week, blah blah... " TALK TO ME, ROMEO

If she doesn't reply, bust on her

DD's line is "What, playing hard already? NICE" Talk to me,

then she replies, you guys send a couple of emails back n forth

and then you call her, saying " since you're so shy to call me, i decided to do it myself, feel special and loved, lil bunny"

Get it?

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Yeah this is exactly what I have started doing. I used the same lines to get to the point where I'm emailing them. I've emailed them last night and as of yet-no reply from either of the 3. I guess I'll just continue to wait here by my computer!!!

did they give you their number?

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No, I did not get their #'s. I opted for just askin for the email. I spent no more than 5-10 minutes talking to these girls and then did a time restraint 'gotta catch up w some friends'...

Dude...
go for the number
like I said
it creates COMPLIANCE
which will work for your advantage better

Think about this

Email + Number = I should probably reply to him

Email = Maybe, but why would I? It's like knowing an internet buddy

In that way, you email her and then call her

Dude, just go for the number, it's not that hard to ask for one

It's not surprise that they haven't replied to you, go for the number

just do it, and if it doesn't work, you can blame it on me

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Romeo's got it.
And just think, what if this girl rarely checks her email? Well that would suck wouldn't it! The stepping stone between email and # is small. I doubt I will ever ask for an email first. Asking a girl for the email through phone use is a lot easier than asking for a number though email, the girl will be more willing to give it, as it is sort of a down grade.
You want that number buddy!

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DD's "Playing hard to get? Nice. Talk to me." line is like a punch of pure awesome, straight to the face. I've used it on Myspace, in email and on MSN and started so many awesome conversations and relationships. Entry, I suggest you use it. Granted, you should have got their numbers too, but you might still get something happening.

None of the 3 girls and another girl who gave me her email from hotornot.com, have responded. This is similar to what has happened in the past. This is NYC, maybe that has something to do w it????

Well, I have 2 new #'s from last nite so I'll try this again. Ive tried nite and daygame so far w the same result. Perhaps I need more rapport building... how much time are u guys soending on a girl wen u meet her?

I have no trouble # closing but the conversion of #'s to dates is like freakin' zero right now! a bit frustrating...
:/