you have no freaking idea how to set up a day 2.

Well, I have a few questions which will help me and others in this forum.

1) How long should you wait till you call her?
2) How much time should you schedule for a date? Like a week in advance? Or more like 2 days?
3) How do you begin the call? Do you have to reestablish connection and attraction?
4) Generally how long do you want to talk? Should you have a false time constraint? (I ask this because this one time I talked for over an hour with a girl after saying hello.)
5) Any other key points from YOUR EXPERIENCE would be appreciated by me and everyone else in the forum. None of that theoretical bull.

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i need these questions answered myself, good thread.. can a pua please help us soon to be puas

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2) How much time should you schedule for a date? Like a week in advance? Or more like 2 days?
I kinda have a slow day on Tue (its sat night) you wanna get together some time in the evening? 'No, I'm busy'
Okay thats cool, tell ya what, I'll give you a call next week and maybe I'll have time for it then. Then say goodbye and walk away/hang up (not rude but like you have something to do). If you're lucky she'll try and tell you what does work.
If she gives you two options shut down the first one and say 'Im busy' then think and accept the second one 'I think I can fit you in, Ill call you if I cant'

3) How do you begin the call? Do you have to reestablish connection and attraction?
I like to begin by calling her a halfway insulting nickname MaryBeth 'Mubs', Lizzie 'Lizard', Rachel 'Rashell (like a black chicks name)', etc.
Just say what's up and have a reason for calling. DONT talk for more than a few minutes, do that in person.

4) Generally how long do you want to talk? Should you have a false time constraint? (I ask this because this one time I talked for over an hour with a girl after saying hello.)
When the conversation is going good and preferably she is laughing, cut her off and say 'Alright we'll talk later I gotta go/ I gotta go take care of some stuff' ALWAYS end it on your own terms and ALWAYS end it on a high point.

5) Any other key points from YOUR EXPERIENCE would be appreciated by me and everyone else in the forum. None of that theoretical bull.
All this is experience I have used it and it works

1) I think it depends on the girl. I once used the 3 day rule and the first thing the chick said when she picked up the phone was, "Following the 3 day rule huh?"; I was obviously stunned because I always imagined that it was a sacred unspoken rule that worked...

So I changed my game around a bit. I now play the random game when I pick up girls and I promise to do something or go somewhere random, if you do it right they'll play along. (Like go to the zoo, sky diving or river rafting)

More often then not, she won't be able to go where you both promised when you call her and thats what I would normally expect; but it shows that you have integrity. Make her laugh a few times to build rapport and leave the conversation randomly because you have do something else. I normally won't call after that for about a week or 2; She'll either be really happy when I call her or be the one to call me.



I think you gotta feel the girl out from when you first meet her...but you also gotta remember its different for everybody.


Your own personality is key, so do what your most comfortable in doing and saying because people can see right through you if its not your style.

Not to worry though, if you practice in the field you WILL become more comfortable.

Most of these questions apply to me too.

Just have to say:
Her: 'Following the three day rule huh?'
Me: 'Yeah, you know how slow three days goes when you're watching the clock with the phone in your hand?' in a sarcastic voice and laughing.

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I vote someone make a thread on this. 1 topic of thread, 5000 threads of topic.

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Quiddy, excellent post imo. I'm definitely going to rework your replies into my style.

thanks!

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Ok this is from a little experience and others posts I have read:

1/2) Do NOT call back the first day however dont wait more than a week/week and a half or so. If possible it is best to give a call around wednesday to try and set something up. If she is busy this gives you the option to plan for the weekend. Calling on a friday/ saturday night can make you look lame and have nothing to do, so call in advance!

3) Ok if she already has your number than you can say something like Quiddy said; however if you only have her numer you MUST begin the call with something she will rememeber you with, whatever that may be. Be creative and immediately start with something memorable about the night:

i.e. Last night I hooked up with a girl and got her number. She had a "broken/jammed" finger which I did a little first aid on making a splint with a pencil, paper, and tape ha. When I call her back on WEDNESDAY I will ask something along the lines of "how is that splint/pencil holding up" or anything along those lines. She needs to remember you and your name.

Thats what I got for now just a few things I have picked up here or there. Should serve as a good basis but there is plently more to add upon out there.