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Oh hey Xfman,
I was wondering what hired guns are.
HIRED GUNS - Females in the service industry that are usually recruited for their good looks, such as strippers, waitresses, etc.
Many people believe that bartenders are the hardest girls to pick up, Maybe you have a point because they get a lot of attention but you can get their attention really easy, With some NEG's and correct DHV and Body language your in.
Why they have all the attention ?
Because there is a bunch of AFc trying to get in her pants.
Example:
AFC: HI
Hired Gun : HI
AFC: Can you give me two shots of tequila and a third one for you
Hired Gun: Yeah sure.
What is he doing worng?
Buying her drinks does not impress her, She is a bartender , she can have as many shots as she wants and all the guys buy her drinks, you’re probably the 1000 guy tonight to buy her a drink and the last thing she wants is another one. That is just a normal AFC attitude.
Bartenders are probably the girls in the bar or club that get hit on the most, so they have 10 times the experience of most women. You might think that this is a bad thing but, my experience has taught me that since they get hit on so often, they get bored at the usual techniques and jump at the idea of something new.
So what happens when some guy NEG her and tell some funny stuff ?
Yeah they get interested because they are so bored and there is a new guy making her laugh
Bartenders are used to the guy’s trying to seduce them right away; but by creating attraction first this gets them get interested. They also have an ego built to the sky so negs have the biggest effect on them. The best thing about hitting on a bartender is that time constraint is already built in since your just there for a drink then back to the dance floor.
The difficulties are that you only have short period of time with her. She is working!
You’re not the only customer she has. So the two minutes you will be spending with her must be priceless. If you are in the middle of a DHV story, (btw DHV stories are very useful if you know how to use them) and she goes to serve another customer don’t wait for her to come back and finish your stories, leave, she’s not going anywhere.
I personally like to go back to the bar two to three times a night, more can seem needy. As you’re progression continues you will see how;
Your first conversation last two minutes or less,
The second five minutes as she ignores a customer or two
And your third conversation, which is done at closing, will last ten minutes as she completely ignores everyone but you.
It is closing so there are less people in the club neways. After those eight to twelve minutes you bail out getting her number. This causes her to be intrigued by you, which she will then want a real conversation with you where you can tell all those unfinished DHV stories..
Credit to Strike22 ( Edited by XFMAN.)
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