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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 4:35 pm 
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Hey bro, question for ya. David D and other's say to make friends ( non - sexual with three hot babes ).. I've already have one, that is a big hot babe. We've been my friend for years, kind of came accidentally.

She helps so much, everytime I'm in public with her, all girls get jealous and stuff, they also ask "is that your girlfriend"

First question : What do I say back to that, should it be like " No way" or "she wishes".... or " No no we're just friends"

Second question: How do I make friends with other hot babes, I find it hard, Because most girls think im a "player" and think I want more then just friendship.


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 9:31 pm 
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If you're running David D, why not answer the first question with, "Yes she's one of 6 girlfriends, and if you're lucky you can be number 7. (this is cocky funny) She has spot number 2 on the list because she is super cool, cooks for me and is smoking hot. (trying to build jealously with the target) In fact you seem cool and non-creepy, so I'll give you the honorary spot of number 7, but first sign of creepiness and I'm cutting you. (letting her know you're qualifying her and that you are the prize)"

Hot babes hang around other hot babes, so for a while you might make it a goal to befriend hot babes you number close. Invite them and their friends to social gatherings you hold with your friends. Basically start developing a social circle that has the highest probability of having hot babes in it.

Lastly go where the hot babes are. Take a Yoga or aerobics class for "the health benefits." Take a psychology class at your local community college. Join a modern or jazz dance class at your local dance studio.

If you are trying to befriend them, do what every other AFC does to get the LJBF speech. Skip attraction and qualification and go straight to building comfort by finding commonalities. Ask questions like, what do you do for work, what types of food do you like, etc. Base the relationships on commonalities from the gate and ignore building attraction and qualifying her.

Hope this helps.

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PostPosted: Wed Aug 20, 2008 10:28 pm 
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Heya man,

I'm more than happy to help.

First question : What do I say back to that, should it be like " No way" or "she wishes".... or " No no we're just friends" ?

When you get these kind of questions you understand it means the girl is interested in you. She's taking the time to find out your situation and work out whether she can get you or not. First up don't insult your friend, anything that makes her look bad will only come back on you, so try to stay away from "she wishes"

Your options are either to be ambiguous, replying with something like. It's complicated...I'll fill you in later.

Or to come out with the truth. OMG this girl...hahaha No way She's like my best friend in the world. I could never. That would just be weird.

Second question: How do I make friends with other hot babes, I find it hard, Because most girls think im a "player" and think I want more then just friendship.

Ok in this situation the trick is to not get sexual. If you're just being friendly but never attempt to sexually escalate you'll never have an issue making friends. You may still give off the player vybe, but they'll be comfortable hanging around you. If you really want to get more female friends, take the time to set up an event or situation where you'lld have a reason to meet them. I have a friend that has female only poker nights and classes....I used to run project Entourage. There are thousands of possibilties...Enjoy!


Hope this helps.

If anyone has any other questions feel free to direct them to me on the forum. I've been inundated with PM's and I'd rather reply to them in a place where everyone can learn from the answers.

All the best

AFC Adam,


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 1:06 am 
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..and what if u already had that "HB" female friend- actually she practicly told you EVERY SINGLE thing about her, so ur pretty close - BUT ur stubborn ass wants more than just that..?
And since those feelings started comin' before i "went Packman" on PUA stuff and before i read The Game, i did the typical AFC thing and...(yeah, uve guessed it) :( confessed my thoughts and feelings to her (now, i know that its a No-No)..

Here's the catch, i wanna lose this one-itis (i think thats what it is)..I know the solution for this problem is to go out and meet cute chicks, but im still very new to this..Cramming info but with no practical work..
A part of me doesnt wanna loose this amazing friend (put my one-itis aside, she really is amazing).. and the other wants more.
:idea: :?:

Ribbets, Le Frog..


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 5:10 am 
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you can't have the cake and eat it my friend.

Either you risk all and go for it...or you keep her as a friend and ftow.

It's a tough call. I'd always value friendship above a lay...but each to their own.

AFC Adam,


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 10:36 am 
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But i love cakes..! :lol:
Anyway bro, its not only about the lay..not at all. But i got what you mean, we'll see what happens..

Appreciate your fast reply, thanks..tc :wink:

Ribbets, Le Frog..


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Those with questions directly to Mr. Lyons should ask them in his Ask Me thread:
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