So yesterday I was hanging out with this HB9 that I have been gaming for a while. Now, I know she is into me because she has told me. We are also friends, but long story short, our relationship is really weird. However, she has a boyfriend.

Anyway, we're in her garage (she lives with her parents, she is turning 18 in a month or so and I just turned 16) getting ready to go on a bike ride. (I race road bikes and I love using my bike as a date idea/DHV) When she just jumps on me and we start making out. It lasted actually a few minutes. Once it was done she looks at me and said "sorry, couldn't control myself" and we just go like nothing happened. However a few minutes in she tells me that she feels really bad about it. (she refuses to cheat on her boyfriend - it was the first time something happened) She still feels bad.

What do I do here?

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Well, I think she likes you.

By the looks of things, she really doesn't need any encouragement. I think that if you just keep going the way you are, maybe with a bit more attention payed to her, then you will probably get her on your knob fairly quickly.

Now that it is out in the open, don't neglect her, or the fact that it happened. Maybe ask her 'what was all that about?' tell her it was good, but unexpected.

I seriously think that she will go ahead and dump the other guy if she doesn't want him no more. Or you could look into adapting the boyfriend killing techniques. Or maybe she would like a csp. I really don't know about this one.

She sounds evil, though. Good luck with her.

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"you're right... your boyfriend is a really.. nice.. guy, he would be hurt if he ever found anything out"

Take a step back. Inform her that you don't want her to cheat on her boyfriend, because you wouldn't want a girl cheating on you. LJBF her. Just be friends with her, but tell her thats what you want. Then if/when she breaks up with her boyfriend you can revisit the topic. She's attracted to you, thats obvious. You don't need to push it anymore. She will make up her mind soon enough.

= attraction lost.

All depends on your personal morals though.

I agree with GATA.

Do you want this girl?

She wants to be with you. If she didn't want to cheat on her bf, than she wouldn't have put herself in this situation. Hmmm... lets think about it. she is in her garage sitting with a guy who is just a "friend". She is obviously bored with her current bf and wants someone new and exciting. Be that guy. Be fun and exciting, cause that is what she is really looking for. Escalate the the kino, work her up and she will be putty in your hands. Keep in mind, if she does this with her current bf, she will do it with you as well.

And whatever you do, do not be like "so what was that kiss about?" or "so what are we?" The moment you do that, you are out of the game. She does not want to sit and conversate about the kiss, she wants to live in the moment.

Edit: Advance. Advance. Advance, until she says no.
CK

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I like this. You want to get her to leave her bf for you, plain and simple. She obviously likes you more, because of the way she is acting, so just make her realise it for herself. Just don't tell her that she likes you more, or that she should leave him, etc, you need to make her come to these realisations herself, otherwise they won't work.

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