I wait tables and it is a great environment for interacting with women, it's one of the reasons i work there. I meet a lot of girls, some i work with, others that i wait on. If i am waiting on the table, I have plenty of time to talk and decide if i want to close or not.

But the scenerio I want to work on is when I see a girl I like, sitting with friends/family, whoever, and I want to talk to her. Usually I am busy running around too, but if i see a girl, i will walk by and make eye contact and smile or deliberately bring them their food. I feel like the best time to get their number would be when they are leaving, but i don't have the time to go through all the steps, building comfort, things like that. I try to build a little attraction, as much as i can, but I haven't taken the leap and just pulled a girl aside before she left and asked for her number...

Does anyone have any suggestions for a quick close in that type of a situation? I have some ideas that I will try and I'll let everyone know, but open to hear other evaluations!

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right next time, what to do, is when they're leaving wait by the door, with your fly undone and your willy hanging out and then smile and wink, and say 'i love youuuuu, can i get your number!


haha

kidding!

that is actually a damn good question, i would like to know the answer as well, perhaps, just say

"miss can i talk to you for a second" and walk away and she should follow, if she follows then great, just say. "before i start. regarding your friends and family. tell them i was head hunting you for a job because of your good looks, altho that aint everything however thats why i'm asking you with the little time given for a number so i could see if theres a personality to match, (smile).... pause....

any good?

~sierra~

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I like to hybrid techniques, inner game and methods with my own natural game.

If you do this with confidence, all shall prevail!

Whilst you are waiting a table/set w.e you are likely to get IOI's. If you manage to continue a quick convo, talk about how your an artist and love to paint. Then go cocky funny - "yeah, you know, this whole waiting thing is only part time - they say im the next DA VINCI!" They'll laugh hahahahah

When they are about to leave, isolate the target how the previous poster wrote but dont say the whole 'personality match' thing...AFC much.

Pull out the paper and pen, say you need inspiration on your art, and you want her to help you by drawing something then do that what's it called number close. --> "I dont know what to draw" - "let me help you, start with 555..."

Make sure to anchor the whole art thing and seem passionate. desperatley huge DHV.

Let me know how it goes.

Jesper

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nice, i like those ideas. the art close is clever and it gets me thinking of different ones as well. I have quite a few shifts coming up this week and i'm sure there will be some potential HB's to give it a try. I'll let ya know how it goes!!

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When shes leaving and you feel theres enough attraction ask her if maybe next time you can and eat with her and ask for her number.

I have been in this situation plenty of times. What i do is to look for IOI's and instead of getting her #, use this time to hand her yours. But before you do, make sure you biuld a little comfort so she won't think your a "creeper"

I think you are in the best position ever, as you can put yourself in the spot very easily... I would open when giving them the menus making a joke or a funny coment to one of the other girls and if they laugth then casually blinking at her like is accidental like is "you girls liked that"...

Then leave for them to check and when you come back to take the orders, look for eye contact and IOIs, maybe some direct flirting but in a rock start attitude altive but loose, so they have something to talk after you leave with the ordering.

You can also make a "double meaning" coment when refering to the paying and tipp... and when she is leaving, maybe you hold the door... I would go for something like "So, then we see us tomorrow, I have off, but we still can meet near here" doing an statement of it...

What u guys think?

Dude, this is simple actually.
I used to work at a bar and did this.
Firstly, get a nickname for the girl. If she's wearing an orange shirt for instance just say "and here's the salad for orange" as you deliver her food. In the end, after she is comfortable with you and your playfulness
just get an extra bill (receipt) and before she goes say: "Miss, you forgot your bill" and smiling give it to her. Inside that bill you will have artfully written something along the lines

"Hey Orange. I wanted to say this personally but your dad/mom/brother looks so mean I bet he would have killed me with that chopstick of his! (assuming it's a chinese restaurant).
So here's my number. XXXX-XXXX. Text me. If you don't Im gonna be
sad " (Draw a smiley face after you write "sad". It's push-pull on paper!

And if she doesn't text, don't worry. The next time she comes to the restaurant just look at her and say "You're not used to getting hit by handsome bartenders, are you?" and smile. Smile smile smile baby!
It's all about having fun.
Good vibes!
=]

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I have a few suggestions . I used to work at a grocery store handing out samples. I think that any job that forces you to talk to people (men, women, children, etc..) greatly enhances your game. I always used to practice lines and routines on the costumers.

Anyway, you would approach it as if you are approaching a set. First Toss in an appropriate opener. Second rock back like your going to leave then ask "How do you all know each other?" - or - if there are two girls do the BF test. I think that being a waiter will help you quite a bit. You can start threads, leave, then get them to ask you about it when you return. I dont think you would be able to build kino, but you don't have to, to number close.

The number close that worked best for me was style's. You mention that you and your friends are going to some cool restaurant, change the thread, then come back to it 5 min later and ask her is she would like to "tag along." You pull out a piece of paper, write your number, then tear the remaining paper and give it to her along with the pen. Best part is you never have to ask - its implied. But if she does say "whats this for" toss in a neg and tell her "be creative."

I hope this works, GL !

Thanks for all of your input! I have tried various things and I have a lot more good new than bad news...here have been some of my experiences!

1. One night i was the host, there was a girl in the corner of the restaurant with her dad, (everyone was moving into college this weekend) we were making eye contact all night and i really wanted to talk to her but i just couldn't muster the courage to hit on her in front of her dad...then my boss told me i was cut and could go home...so i left my number with the girl that i was working with and told her to give her my number. I wrote something clever and put a smiley face, but the girl never called. no surprise, it is a lot of pressure for a girl to call first.

2. This i have pulled off twice since my last post. I wait on a table of girls and start a lot of conversations. I ask the same key questions always:

"So, how do you all know eachother" anyone know has read anything knows that question is gold...then, after finding out more and talking more i always ask "So where are you guys headed tonight?" and I will tell them about the new bars i know of that opened recently...my whole goal is not for numbers as much as it is to set a time bridge somewhere else. So I always talk up a bar, and how much i like the music, the dancing, bands whatever and i try to meet them and when i drop the check off i tell them "hey leave me a love note....and leave a number, I'll call you when i'm off" that has worked both times i have tried it!

3. I have also done this 2 times, and it is fun. I saw a table of girls that i like....they are not my table. When their food comes up in the window, i make sure to deliver it. (everyone at my job knows i love to flirt with women and let me deliver food to all the hot girls) so when i bring the food/drinks over i introduce myself and ask everyone's name. Then i key in on the girl i like and make a lot of eye contact...stop by here and there and ask how things are going, tell some jokes! I have a routine of things i do. ex... tell them about the night before how i was at a kareokee bar and got on stage like it was open mic night at some comedy club and i tell lame jokes that only i thought were funny. and i tell them the jokes, they are funny, moving on...then i leave the girl that i like with a check presenter with a note, like a little kid would write and i write my number and my name on the top, then i draw a line and write something like "would you like to go out sometime" then two boxes with "Yes" box and "No" box then i write "your number here ________"

That has worked both times as well!

I have just left my number on a few other occasions and that has never worked out...i think it is imperative to get their number so you can make the initial call, and don't be so submissive about what you will do on the date! You decide. "hey, this is what we are doing, this is where we are going and this is when" don't ask them, do you like this or that, what do you want to do...at first you need to be direct!

Well that is in short my experiences, thanks a lot for the input, i like the ideas...I am definately going to use the nicknames. "here you go
[/b]orange"

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