| G'day from Downunder:
I love sarging at work but its true it can be trouble, but not if you play it right. See my post: 'closing the office collegue'.
Firstly i must warn you that i sarge at work only because
1. I dont give a stuff about my job its just while im at uni then im leaving.
2. There are over 300 employees, so its not too tight-knit.
Be careful if your planning a career with the company or its a small firm.
Anyway
If i was you i would hold off all attention to her for about a week. Even when she comes into your office (unless its business-related), just politely say "im flat out, can you come back". This will get her all confused, exactly where you need her. Shell be thinking "what have i done", "has he got a new GF", "why doesnt he like me anymore" ahhaha
Then before its too late amp up the CF. Depending on how into you she is you could even say "have you seen the new girl in Sales, how cute is she" something like that. Then when you have her wanting more tell her to meet you after work. IF she cant do the time give her one other time, still no luck you will have to pull back.
Here are some office sarging tips:
-NEVER EVER tell any of your collegues your doing anything with her. Be it coffee, a date or sex. Not even if you consider that collegue a close friend. As soon as stuff spreads you can guarantee its all over, she does not want to be perceived as the office slut. Make it clear to her after the first date, she must keep quiet. This also shows your the prize.
-When in the presence of other staff at work and she is around just act like she is any other member of staff
- If she starts becoming overly flirtatious at work, pull her up on it say "not now babe its not the place" she will respect you for having control.
-Finally, depending on your position in the company you can use it to effectively show you lead men (this is highly attractive to women). You dont even need to be a manager, just always be confident around male staff and act like the dominant figure.
Respect, Excitement
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