hey im a chick and im here to help my friend out and maybe get some pointers for my self. if any of you boys need girls input. dont hesitate to ask

Once she opens up and you see her vulnerabilities, she's yours!

The Nice Guy- Believes he should go out of his way to be sweet nice and understanding no matter what the circumstances. They don't draw boundaries and stand up for themselves very often. They typically harbor in the inner belief that they are better than others because they are so nice. Remember, when you are being nice to get something back you are being manipulative.



Don't be a nice guy be a good man...

You are going to FAIL! You are going to make mistakes and things aren't going to go the way you want!
Keep reading!

This is what we call learning from experience. Don't just go, "well that didn't work, so obviously people are wrong and it's bullshit!" Take the time to go over things when they don't work out the way you want, as well as when they go well, because you learn more from your mistakes than you ever will from your successes. "Experience is what you get when you don't get what you want", in the words of Randy Pausch; so listen to the man and realise that although you didn't get what you were hoping, you got experience and you can learn from that and hopefully do better next time, but if not, that's just more experience.

Do you have ANY idea how many people on here have spent YEARS working on getting the results they desire? I've been working at it hard for a year now, come next month and I've known about the community for a little over a year and a half now, but I've been trying to develop skills with women for as long as I can remember (and I can remember fooling around with the girl next door when I was 5, but that didn't help get me more than 1 girl, for only 2 weeks, from ages 6-18 ).

DO NOT GIVE UP SO EASILY!

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alot of valuable stuff here that i did'nt consider thanks

this is ace. Thanks to all who have posted here, really helped.
like a few of you I have tons of girl friends, but never really had much sexual contact. I was always viewed as the Cute Nice Guy i suppose. not that i am saying all those friendships were worthless, ow no, quite the opposite, invaluable infact.

but thanx to you guys I can really start making a change and developing myself. cheers guys.

ow and a tip i learnt from my ex/ now best friend, is that girls love compliments, no matter how much of an act they put on, trying to show that your comment was worthless, its still a compliment and they love it.

in the words of Style "Dont hate the player, hate the Game"

nice!

Nice inspirational read.

...gives me something to think about.

Hopefully one day I'll be able to inspire someone with knowledge as you guys have me.

Thanks.

All of this information is so true.
I'm honestly taking all of this in.

I'm a newbie to the art of pickup in THEORY.
Practically I've applied my own stuff, but learning all of this stuff really makes my day, and it really shows me how/what I've been doing wrong and differently.

Essentially, the little things I can correct, will land me big things in the future.


Thanks for all this guys! Keep it up! Love reading this.

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first post here... i thought i was a good pick up artist until i finished reading the game and finding forums like this! i have so much to learn, this thread was great keep it up guys!

Even w/ out doin all the outer game stuff u can learn here. Just readin this stuff has helped my inner game, if only alittle. How to stand, eye contact, and that great quote "There just girls" is all money. Ive worked at a rink for a year, and theres a 40 year old broad ive befriended(older women love me, if only the 19-29s did) and after readin a bunch of this stuff and digesting it, i went to work on monday, and she asks me after talkin for acouple mins

"whats w/ you?"

"nothin" i say

"you seem different"

nothin was different, i hadnt shaved or anything, same work cloths, the same everything, but since i had internalized some of this stuff & had the word Amog looping through my head every 5mins, it obviously had some impression on me i was unaware of, but this women picked up on in 2mins

I kinda startin openin sets at work, just talkin, gamin girls, game dudes, gamin the world, not out for sex, but just workin on, (as my grama puts it) "The gift of gab" that women get hooked by

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"Women like the Roses
Men like the TwoLips"

essentially, confidence and slight organization separates a successful PUA from a normal guy.

I agree there's definitely a different vibe between a 6 and a 10, but it's all about reading someone.

To one person, the girl might be a 6... and to another, she might be a 10.
If anything, social calibration comes into play.

If you can read the other person well, you'll be able to do well.
Don't judge that someone is a 10 and automatically go with "10 game", because she might see herself as a 6 and then the "6 game" would work better.

agreed. its a mistake that i've made often and i'm sure i'm not the only one.

rather start off with X game (which is your "default" setting) and then calibrate up or down depending on the reactions your getting.

what kind of differences are there between game u run on a 6 vs a 10?