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I'm tired of holding it all back. I'm tired of being a fucking AFC. I'm tired of crafting my mannered posts that still get me nowhere because I'm to afraid to execute the game in real life and establish my dominance.
I need some serious help from you guys.
I know a lot of the game in and out, but I'm getting nowhere because I'm such a shy person. I know the solution to most problems, but again, it doesn't do me any good because I'm too shy to step out of my AFC zone and be an alpha male. You have no idea how it's really starting to piss me off.
I sit there in school, DAY after DAY, staring at a fucking wall unless I'm around my friends or people I know. When I speak around the people I don't know, I speak like a fucking five year old because I'm to shy to speak up.
I know what I have to do thanks to the game, but I just can't do it because my shyness is holding me back.
There's the background, now here's my biggest problem / DLV.
I don't know anybody on the bus I ride. I simply sit there, by myself, in the same fucking seat day after day, staring at the front or outside the window. I sit in the same seat every day and don't make a single noise. I try to be non-existent so people will leave me the fuck alone.
Lately, this is not the case. I get these annoying fucking middle school girls (probably grade 7/8 ), who annoy the shit out of me every day and don't say anything worthwhile. Again, because of my shyness, they've taken the advantage of holding more "social power" than me and do such annoying things.
They poke fun at the fact one of my friends came over on the bus one day and now make fun of the fact and call us "gay lovers" etc.
They touch me, they make fun of me, they put empty candy wrappers on my head, and it's SO FUCKING ANNOYING.
I need some serious help, this is destroying my fucking life and it keeps getting worse and worse on not only the bus ride, but my life as well.
Please give me some advice on how to handle this already DLV'ing myself situation, and social shyness in general. I could really use some help or some lines to take care of this situation.
This is destroying my fucking life, and I know it is, but I'm to shy to do ANYTHING about it.
wow that's pretty sad, kinda reminds me of myself back when i was in middle school. So this is what i did and i think if you follow you might get your life straight. BUT you have to realize that it's completely ok to sit during a bus ride and not talk to anyone, it doesn't make you any less cooler or social. but it has to be a choice that you make, and the people who bully you need to be taught a lesson and you need to show them. now it's up to you to make that choice within yourself to not get bullied and not have people treat you like shit. i would say lift some weights and change your appearance but most importantly clear your mind, and calm those ripples in your mind that are destroying your own image.
Because as i see it, it seems that you seem to hate yourself, you seem to think that you are a loser and you seem to think that it's ok for people to make fun of you because you don't think that you're cool or whatnot.
I used to be like you but i want you to clear your mind and let go of all those moments whether good or bad, and just think about how your life is going, just because your life is not good or the way you don't want it to be, doesn't mean you can't change it.
now i know i sounded like a priest or something but that's your inner game, that seems to be your biggest problem, all that negetive beahivor is coming from you, you need to stop hating yourself and just accept who you are. try this, just spend about 15 everyday, sit down and just clear your mind and don't think about anyting that's bothering you or nothing. and in weeks you'll realize that most people don't judge you and it'll be like a new life for you.
so yeah, i hoped i've helped.
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