I just started 'dating' this very hot girl. I haven't had sex with her yet, had our first kiss last weekend, and got about halfway to home but we had no place to have sex. Probably going to seal the deal this weekend since I only get to see her once a week.

Anyways, I've been having these really troublesome dreams lately. I have dreams that she tells me she is having sex with someone else, somtimes my friends and sometimes random people. In the dreams, I don't feel angry at her or my friends. I barely react really, I kind of expect it, and just feel a little sad about my situation.

Like I said before, this girl is very hot, the hottest I've ever fooled around with. She gets hit on a lot if I'm walking around in public with her. She has a lot of guy friends who are in love with her.

I guess deep down I feel very insecure and that I don't deserve someone this hot and desired for. How do I get over this? Maybe just because I'm relatively new to the pick up scene and more self-esteem will build over time. I don't want to project this unworthiness to her, and I feel this will create jealousy over time.

Maybe this will stop once I have sex her. Or maybe it'll get worse?

Thoughts?

Man thats a bad situation to be in... I had the same problem, I dated this model for a while, and it lead me to be very jealous and insecure. I felt she was too good for me, and too pretty, and she CONSTANTLY got hit on. Still one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen. I sometimes had dreams like that. I wish I could help you, but all I can suggest really is work on your inner game alot, and confidence. You obviously got her somehow, so you did something right, just keep doing what your doing and work on your confidence. With me, I felt lucky that I got her.

My guess is it will get worse once you sleep with her.

What will help? More hot girls! It seems common PU knowledge that women aren't attracted physically, so what makes these other guys better considering you're more attractive to the girl.

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Just the fact that you actually got a very hot girl should be enough to raise your self confidence but you probably feel that she will cheat on you. as for the dream part theres this site that tells you what they mean its called dreammoods it probably sounds gay but when ever I have a dream that im not sure what it might mean i always go to dreammoods maybe itll help

Just the fact that you actually got a very hot girl should be enough to raise your self confidence but you probably feel that she will cheat on you. as for the dream part theres this site that tells you what they mean its called dreammoods it probably sounds gay but when ever I have a dream that im not sure what it might mean i always go to dreammoods maybe itll help

What if she feels the same way?

What if she is having the same kinda dreams?

She could have the feelings of "BT is so hot and great! What have I done to deserve this guy?"

She is obviously with YOU for a reason.

Women are people too... treat them as such. Once you get over the looks, you may learn to just treat her as any other dip.

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when ever i feel that way i go in the bathroom for few minutes,look myself in the eyes and tell my self things like how all kinds of women love me, i'm good looking, funny the more you tell your self things like that the more you believe it

dude face it...
YOU"RE TOO GOOD FOR HER!