im in high school and i started school early so im a year younger then most girls in my grade, and sometimes it gets brought up casually how should i respond etc to make it a non issue or benefit from it or wtvr?

I was in the same situation as you. The point is that it doesn't really matter. Don't act like you're guilty. You can even neg THEM for being older than you. And besides, the girls who are in a lower grade than you will dig you anyway. Don't make it a big deal cause it's not. If you let this affect you you will regret this later in your life.

I was the youngest guy in my grade, didn't stop me. Age matters even less than looks do man. If your game is tight, the girls will over look that, trust me. There are several ways you can handle this: steer the conversation away from age (easy), neg them back, cocky reply, play it off like its nothing (which it really is), and more.

As Reset said neg them for being older than you, or a cocky reply works just as well:

HB: How old are you?
YOU: Blah blah
HB: Aww your so young!
YOU: Whatever Grandma
Look I don't date old ladies anyway, so we both win (Walk away)
Aw if you weren't so old I'd probably kiss you
Thats alright you'll die first/ Your how old? Really, I would have guessed (low number)
Aw don't you wish you weren't so old?
ETC ETC ETC

As I said, just keep the conversation in your control, and avoid the age question until after you've kissed her, or anything else. I've done this plenty of times, just to see if they really cared. I will ask how old they are right after sex, tell them I was younger and they would be like: No way! Really! Then a few minutes later go for round two. So you can always try that if your frame control is strong.

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Well, I am in the same situation as you. Funny thing is, it doesn't absolutely matter. Some bitches will attack you for it. Ignore them; they are social-status-by-age-diggers (a chick who will date older man just to get into group full of older people, so she can act cool in front of her friends).

I actually find seducing older girls much easier; they have more experience so Game as we play it works better on them. Also, younger chicks are usually totally insecure or big-headed. And, frankly, chicks older than me find me attractive. Younger ones have no idea what are they looking for.

Last thing; what matters is how you look. How old you look, to be more accurate. Actual age doesn't matter at all. Its how old you look, and how old you think/speak. Trust me, only one who truly cares about it is you.

BTW, these above-listed techniques are pure gold. Thanks much guys!

Carpe Diem.

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Go cocky funny on her!, This happens to me all the time, so ive created sum methods to deal with this age situation

HB:How old are u?
Me:Old Enough!
HB:Hhaha

If she says for what? which is rare
say: thats for me to know and for you to find out, (I knw its kind of chessy but hey it worked for me a bunch of times)

U could also try this

HB: You look realy young how old are u?
Me: (age) But im not going to be ur BOY TOY! If thats what ur thinking
HB: HAHA
Me: I think u have me confused with Ashton Kuthcher(this shows that ur up to date with pop news)
Me: from now im going to call u demi more
HB: haha I love her
Me: Realy me too, we can role play strip tease in my place!
HB: hahah (punches arm)

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Another good one is

HB: how old are you?

ME: Old enough to be your boyfriend

HB: I have a bf

ME: Well looks like ill be your weekend boyfriend

Just be cocky funny and if her response varies, just vary your answers..