Hi everyone!

I´m from Finland and I have been reading PUA stuff mainly on this page for a couple of weeks now and I´m really digging this stuff and got my copy of The Game last week. I´m a real newbie but eager to learn and try out this stuff.

I´m a security guard by profession so I´m not a shy guy but I suck at noticing when a girl is interested and I hope to improve my skills on how to keep the conversation going.

Looking forward to learn and disguss PUA stuff with you guys!

Kojak

hi kojak

welcome to the board!

so you have the confidence of a body guard...

BUT... the emotional intelligence department is not that well equiped is it

go out with a friend and start to talk to beautiful girls... and ask a friend to tell you if he thought they were attracted and when...

Indicators of Interest we call them.... you can see them yourself when you're relaxed... girls touching their hair, powerful eye looking, biting their lips and anything that happens AFTER YOU APPROACH that might show a positive or interested state...

because that's what matters.... the CHANGE IN HER BODYLANGUAGE after you come and talk to them... not an interest before you approach!

so don't try to observe attraction before you even look at them, or talk to them or somehow get their attention because it's irrelevant...

first catch attention, than look for body language signs of interest

best regards!

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Thanks for the advice sorin

Hahaa, yeah Definetly need to work on the emotional intelligence department.. I´ve had a lot of time to read this forum at work lately and I found some information on the IOI´s as well.

I´ll have the next two days off from work so I`m gonna go out to the mall, coffee shops etc and start talking to girls. I´ll try to be more relaxed when talking to girls and let´s see what happens..

I´m sure that I´ll have much more information on me when I have finished reading The Game.

hi again kojak ,

emotional intelligence is learnt through practise and experience... you will have an instinct, intuition about things once you get the experience you need...

Read about the IOI's and try to spot them on girls... but do take action and talk to girls... and learn from every interaction! Otherwise it's just stories, theory, poetry... not real life.
Exactly man, just do that .
Be fun, be spotanenous, give a sincer compliment when you see something interesting or that makes you feel good, laugh... Be a generous person, give good feelings to ther people and you're going to be DAMN ATTRACTIVE .
Take the game as a guide, don't take it as a bible.

Learn your own way of doing things... Style is a model... no model is perfect... learn from him what suits your personality, drop what doesn't...

Learn the most from what you do out there with the girls

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