My game is at a point where I am getting day 2s but not lays. I find myself checking out porn on the internet of hot women and masturbating at least twice a week.

Is this healthy ? some guys say you should not look at any porn what are your views on this ?

Thanks,

Kev

Looking at porn is fine...but its not gonna help you're game at all. If you wanna get past the day 2's the only way is to work at it.

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Formerly Titan42

Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.

Tbh, i think it depends on the person. Some people have low sex drives, some people have high. Some pople can jack off daily and still want to go and get laid others will go to sleep

I do masturbate twice a week and am still working on my game. A friend of mine mentions that if i am reducing my testorone levels by doing this which means i will have a less of a masculine aura when i open women.

I know this sounds absurd but what do you think ?. I do have a high sex drive and i have to let it out or i will go mad

There is a huge thread on this topic. My personal opinion is there is no scientific evidence to show that your testosterone levels drop after ejaculation.
There is however evidence that the free testosterone in the blood increased after ejaculation. And also some evidence showing you dont lose it when you ejaculate. Although that is from prediceted levels since messuring the hormone accuratly isnt very easy (apparently :S).

However, i would imagine it has a lot to do with your base levels of the hormone, tbh, if your worried about your testosterone levels affecting your sex/physical ability my strongest suggestion would be to work out. Even just 15mins of quad/hamstring exercise (intense ofc) WILL increase the level of the hormone in your blood since it is directly related to the build up of muscle in the body.

Watching porn or even a sexy MTV video gives you instant stimulation and (I assume) a powerful orgasm whilst done "doing your business".

The mind (believe it or not) cannot tell the difference between a real experience and a heavily visualised one. Porn (or MTV) definately fills this need quite well and you get genuine satisfaction. However afterwards your sub-concious mind doesn't realise it was imagined, even though you consciously realise nothing happened between the "two of you".

Some people see porn as "supplication" that is you are so stimulated by hot women on TV or Internet that you cannot be bothered to head out to the city. Aferwards your virtual girlfriend is not there to hug you and give birth to your offspring so you become lonely.

I'd say do something else to occupy your mind so you do have real relationships, or meet sociable people.
If you're watching porn you could just be bored, treat it like chore or you have no contact with women.

Keep the porn but do not masturbate- if you really have to go- knock yourself out-do it.
Other than that treat porn as sex education- may I reccomend Cytheria Squirtwoman 2 to teach women ow to squirt

Haven't you ever seen the movie There's Something About Mary? though each man works differently, the majority undergo a loss of energy after masturbation. If you're the kind of guy that falls asleep after jacking off don't do it. Otherwise, wack it around a little bit before your sarge. This will make you feel relaxed, confident, and aware of sets as a whole. I find that masturbation's affect on the body is pretty similar to Ross Jeffries's energized breathing exercise but a lot more fun.

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Love, KATA124

I've cut down to once a week. I tend to be more motivated when I limit my self-stimulation and I will be more apt to attempt getting that stimulation from an outside source.

Translation: I sarge better when I don't jerk it as much.

Works for me, try it if you want to. Couldn't hurt, eh?

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Dear All,

Your responses have been very helpful. thankyou

1. I wil work out at the gym more
2. Will try to get out more and do other stuff and try hard to reduce my masturbation as i do feel tired after my business and feel like lying down to rest.

Kev

i masturbate pry once every 2 days if not once a day. i am still a very horny person.

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My attitude towards talking to woman. When I approach a HB one phrase is going in my mind.
"What are they gonna do? Not be my friend?"

Im trying to cut it down to once a week but I have terrible willpower for it. Definatly more willpower to go out and sarge when I havent done it. Way too many stimulants in todays society.

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

Thats not true. If you had a gf that wanted to fuck everyday, you would sleep with her everday. Same as masterbating, its the same process. There is nothing wrong with this, its all in your head. If you masterbate, its not going to affect how your seem to women, or your game, unless your really strung up tight lol.
I could masterbate 10 times and still want to go out and get laid, that will only deplete semen not testosterone, which is being refreshed as we speak
Testosterone is a negative feedback process with your hormones, c=having sex is not going to change the levels of it in any way noticible.

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