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Chino, this is the newbie section, most of the poeple here are still so buzzed from learning words like negs and C&F they think they all have to be done.... LOTS!

Ok, i thought of a better way of wording this. If YOU gave the compliment (you do give compliements right? not on appearence but the odd compliment...) and she responded to you with a cocky answer, how should you react? a neg! Thats because she would sound so far up her own arse she might need medical assistance to get out. That neg would be used to show her that you are not around to listen to her self importance all day.
"appearing confident is not about expressing confidence, its about confidently expressing everything" Thankyou will be much more genuin. Negging her or giving a whitty come back when she COMPLIMENTS you is basically PUNISHING her for giving you a huge IOI. notice the problem there?
PUA isnt about having a counter to everything she does, it will just make her edgey and just non-reponsive.

Anyways, i think i'll go hit my head agaisnt a wall for a while :)
/madals

EDIT: some of you need to realise PUA isnt about getting that little buzz cos you were a clever little boy who said something you thought was funny. Neither should you make the target feel like shit at any point in the game. Leave her better than you found her. I will gaurentee that making some1 happy in themselves will grant you a lot more success if you keep a sexual frame than constant C&F bombardment will. If you actually talk to women about this sort of thing most will tell you arrogance/ego is a big turn off but confidence is a big turn on. Find the difference and learn the diffrence.

(from 1 of brads posts) Confidence + plafulness + assertive = sexy. Thats so true.


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yes. very arrogant.
I am not saying what I posted isn't arrogant. I disagree with it being very arrogant. But as I said before some arrogance can be helpful in getting the girl. Look at Donald Trump. I say he is an arrogant man to a certain extent and look at the wives he has had over the years.
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Look... I think guys get carried away with negs and trying to be overly cocky and funny. Its good to be that guy... but you don't need to have a smart ass response for everything. Sometimes a little humility can go a long ways.

Be cocky and funny all day long, but mix it up a bit. Thank you, is the best way to take a compliment.
I agree.


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"You're not the first person who said that to me" At least something like that in another context. It shows confidence and instant DHV cause you are preselected (if it's true or not. Woman interpret like its true). Little bit cocky, but thats no big deal. Something along this line works wonders for me.


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When it comes to being complimented its best NOT to use a cocky/funny response. Simply say "Thank you." I know if a guy replied with a cocky response I would be turned off. You need to be able to turn off the switch sometimes.

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Yeah C&F isnt the best route for this.

Her saying your cute is a BIG IOI imo because it obviously displays shes interested in you and she has just thought of you in a sexual way in her head. only use C&F in this situation if she was being sarcastic. saying "Thank You" with a smile is a better DHV but like someone already said just think in your head "Your the 6th person to say that today" so it doesn't look like your grateful she just complimented you. IT shows humility that you can be funny but also dont have to reply everything she says with a smart ass comment, arrogant joke.. if you use C&F too much you just turn out looking like an Ass.. not the type of guy she would go out with or want to sit and talk to on the phone which is what your really concerned with here.


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yes. very arrogant.
I am not saying what I posted isn't arrogant. I disagree with it being very arrogant. But as I said before some arrogance can be helpful in getting the girl. Look at Donald Trump. I say he is an arrogant man to a certain extent and look at the wives he has had over the years.
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Look... I think guys get carried away with negs and trying to be overly cocky and funny. Its good to be that guy... but you don't need to have a smart ass response for everything. Sometimes a little humility can go a long ways.

Be cocky and funny all day long, but mix it up a bit. Thank you, is the best way to take a compliment.
I agree.
Donald Trump was born with a silver spoon in his mouth. He has been arrogant his whole life. The MAIN reason women go after him is money and power. His attitude is shit, but women will put up with it for a flight and shopping to Monaco. They will take it in the ass on the top floor of his Trump hotel in Dubai. It s what they will do to get what they want.

This whole thread has been blown out of proportion. There will be plenty of times for an arrogant answer. The best answer for this statement is "thank you."

Lock it up, this thread is done.

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Chino, this is the newbie section, most of the poeple here are still so buzzed from learning words like negs and C&F they think they all have to be done.... LOTS!

Ok, i thought of a better way of wording this. If YOU gave the compliment (you do give compliements right? not on appearence but the odd compliment...) and she responded to you with a cocky answer, how should you react? a neg! Thats because she would sound so far up her own arse she might need medical assistance to get out. That neg would be used to show her that you are not around to listen to her self importance all day.
"appearing confident is not about expressing confidence, its about confidently expressing everything" Thankyou will be much more genuin. Negging her or giving a whitty come back when she COMPLIMENTS you is basically PUNISHING her for giving you a huge IOI. notice the problem there?
PUA isnt about having a counter to everything she does, it will just make her edgey and just non-reponsive.

Anyways, i think i'll go hit my head agaisnt a wall for a while :)
/madals

EDIT: some of you need to realise PUA isnt about getting that little buzz cos you were a clever little boy who said something you thought was funny. Neither should you make the target feel like shit at any point in the game. Leave her better than you found her. I will gaurentee that making some1 happy in themselves will grant you a lot more success if you keep a sexual frame than constant C&F bombardment will. If you actually talk to women about this sort of thing most will tell you arrogance/ego is a big turn off but confidence is a big turn on. Find the difference and learn the diffrence.

(from 1 of brads posts) Confidence + plafulness + assertive = sexy.
Thats so true.

Good post people should take note of this!!


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Yeah C&F isnt the best route for this.

Her saying your cute is a BIG IOI imo because it obviously displays shes interested in you and she has just thought of you in a sexual way in her head. only use C&F in this situation if she was being sarcastic. saying "Thank You" with a smile is a better DHV but like someone already said just think in your head "Your the 6th person to say that today" so it doesn't look like your grateful she just complimented you. IT shows humility that you can be funny but also dont have to reply everything she says with a smart ass comment, arrogant joke.. if you use C&F too much you just turn out looking like an Ass.. not the type of guy she would go out with or want to sit and talk to on the phone which is what your really concerned with here.
I don't know. I hear that a lot in fact last night I met a hb I was attracted to at this casino and she REALLY WAS like the 6th person to say it to me but I just smiled and said "THANK YOU". It's boring but it shows you're modest and can take a compliment in a mature way.

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"Everyone tells me that; it's as though they're not interested in me as a person..."

Sounds f cking cheesy but words to that effect genuinely work because it allows you to go off on one saying "most girls just want me as a bit of arm candy or an accessory, I'm only interested in people i can connect with, that have a bit of depth" If she's into that deep sh it the BINGO! If not, just laugh at her at say 'I know'....


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yeah good reply ''how other guys have to said that to tonight'' or ''thanks'' sounds confident, saying ''really'' or ''am i?'' is really AFC territory


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"Everyone tells me that; it's as though they're not interested in me as a person..."
If for whatever reason u dont agree with the thankyou for all the reasons i pointed out, this is pure money. Actually i love it, thats such a role reversal! Follow it up with "women are such sexual predators" and then quickly change topic before she can reply :)

Rupert, wow.


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Chino's right. Afrabi, everyone does NOT say thank you because most people aren't used to receiving compliments and aren't good at it. Thinking of something witty or cocky in response to being called cute shows that it's a rare occurence you feel the need to respond well to. Saying thank you shows that it happens often enough for you to be used to and accept graciously.

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Chino's right. Afrabi, everyone does NOT say thank you because most people aren't used to receiving compliments and aren't good at it. Thinking of something witty or cocky in response to being called cute shows that it's a rare occurence you feel the need to respond well to. Saying thank you shows that it happens often enough for you to be used to and accept graciously.
I like that and agree.

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"Everyone tells me that; it's as though they're not interested in me as a person..."
If for whatever reason u dont agree with the thankyou for all the reasons i pointed out, this is pure money. Actually i love it, thats such a role reversal! Follow it up with "women are such sexual predators" and then quickly change topic before she can reply :)

Rupert, wow.
Agreed.

And I agree with what you said earlier Madals... Don't punish the girl for sending you iois.

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