Hey whats up everyone,

Im a 21 year old college student over in Canada, but Im vacationing in my hometown in Romania for the summer.

Im not neccesairly a newb, I've read The Game ( as most everyone whos here has ), am pretty good looking, have many friends ( both girls and guys ), and am a fairly well known DJ at my university, BUT I have trouble sealing the deal after meeting a girl, or even getting a kiss close.

My score is 4 and I've really only had one girlfriend, back in high school. I hope that I can greatly improve my game with all your help, while Im vacationing here in Europe, before I come back to Canada for college, but so far I have no wingman here, so its gonna be tough.

Can you point me in the right direction to start?

Thanks!

Presume.
Assert.
Lead.

I would guess that you wait too long; hoping for some rainman style information to appear.

This makes you look weak and kills the attraction the longer you wait, until it's gone and you fall into the friend zone.

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Welcome

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I will do the things today what others won't, so tomorrow I can have the things that others don't.

I have a similar problem. And I have just recently begun to take note of the differences when I am successful. See if they are of any use to you:

There are two problems I generally come in contact with, first is when I don't know what to do (or "the best" thing to do) in a situation, so I don't do anything. The other is, that I didn't expect to get somewhere, and by the time I realized I was there the moment was gone.

Both can pretty easily be solved by going over your ideal encounter with a girl and plotting out the landmark places that you have never been before. Everything else you already know how to deal with. For example, I remember before I had ever kiss closed, that I had done everything really well with a girl, got to her dorm room even, and then gave her a hug good bye and left feeling like an idiot. I already knew how to be fun, so I was good at that. But I was still learning how to read the signals for kissing and more.

Becoming conscious of this is the first step. That way you will spend extra effort looking out for only those signals you are currently bad at reading.

So, imagine your encounter, pick out the actions you have not yet done in real life, and then recall all those when you meet a girl you like. Its not much, but its a way to get started that utilizes your own imagination.

the oracale