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if you have the dominant/alpha persona, it's very easy.
"blablabla, you're cool/special/cute/etc. Will you go on a date with me? " it's not worth the shit fi she says no. If she says yes "what's your number, I'll call you when I'm back in town."
closed.
Compliments are usually bad but "cute" can be a NEG because most women would preferr to see themselves as "hot" or "beautiful". Though they've heard it a million times.
"will you go on a date with me?" seems needy as hell unless presented carefully. Alpha, as you said, would be an absolute must in that case. I'd make sure I had a caveman club n my hand while I asked her.
I prefer "why don't you give me your #", in a declarative way as opposed to interrogative. Better than "CAN I Have your #" , where it seems you're asking permission"DLV" It's YOUR frame, not hers. In you're frame, chicks always give the # without hesitation unless there's something wrong with them.
Alpha doesn't ask permission, he TELLS, as if the number exchange is already assumed..
Several points need to be addressed.
First, if there has been a conversation of moderate length such that enough rappot has been developed to make a presumptive number close comfortable, by all means, go for it.
However, in many natural conversations you will only be together for a couple of minutes. It's at this point where, you've DHV'd yourself throughout the discussion, where you've created the attraction, but before she has deliberately expressed it (you can usually read it though), that to straight up ask her out, at a point well before most men do it, and before you have complimented her, it is, on the contrary, my man, a great DHV to say to her face that you want to take her on a date.
From her point of view, she is just beginning to feel some attraction for you, and she's wondering if you are attracted to her, as well as wondering how confident you are, etc. At this point, straight to her face, without any invitation from her, you compliment her and as she's feeling the 'joy' that you are in fact attracted to her, you then DHV with the confidence to ask her on a date, without her consciously expressing interest.
And ultimately, results is what matters. I've k-closed 4 girls in the past 2 weeks, day game, and without deliberately sarging. Just going about my day to day business. And a k-close is always a #-close (in my experience).
Now, SHBs are harder, of course, and playing your cards more to the rule will likely help. But for most 7s, 8s, my way gives me 90% positive results.