So I have a HB 8 coming over friday(so she says) after she gets outta work. Shes coming over to check my new place out, get a dance from me, and a massage. I know her cause we had messed around before, not to much, and when she had problems i was there for her. We stopped talking for a while but we recently started again hence her coming over. I dont want to call her again and ask if shes comng over, i was thnking more of

FOX: Hey, be over by xxtime cause I'm cooking dinner so see you then, but i gotta go back to work ill call u if i can.

Then hang up before she can really say anything. Then i was planning on just having her go into the room and be like wow since my room has, mirrors, handcuffs, strobe lights, and its set up nice, i told her this and she said it was like a porno room and laughed....but I was thinking is the food thing good? and what else should I do. O the reason she wants a dance is cause i can dance like a stripper...IM not one lol but girls love it so i do it, and i just threw in a massage. Now I know i need to ask for something in return but dont know exactly what and how to transition from one part to another when she comes over. Any ideas or suggestions i appreciate...Thanks guys!


FOX

Haha it's basically all set up for you.
Just ask for the same things in return, she gives you a dance (pick some saucy music and she'll get into it) and also a massage. Got any massage oils or anything? Body butter is awesome!

Do you have handcuffs? As in, just lying around? Dunno if that's such a good idea. And dinner is good. Cook up something really awesome, finger foods are always fun, makes it less formal.

And the phone call idea is cool.

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hey dude

just be careful with the dinner thing, it could be a DLV if ya not careful. don't have it ready 4 when she gets there, start a bit after she gets there and make hur help, also make it clear dat cuz u cooked she's gotta do thu dishes. don't make out ya went 2 a lot of trouble 4 hur, make sure she knows you'd be cooking 4 yrself anyway

if ya have kinky shit be sure to hide them till ya at least drilled hur. be careful with the dancing thing, ya don't wanna be 'entertaining' hur. go 4 the sexy massage, u shouldn't need to dance 4 hur, save that 4 another time.

good luck and let us know how it went

dm

Dude its way too prepared, you have to make the seduction scene together, ie give her matches and make her bring out the candles, build that scene with each other, don’t just dump her in this place where its all pretty because she will get very uncomfortable very fast. You need to build comfort and kino escalate. So when shes over take the pressure right off her from the word go, distance yourself, make her prepare some food with you, make her get used to the place, have a pillow fight so on.

Just thoughts

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Alright thanks everyone I'll let you all know how it went after friday

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I totally agree with Impact said

Of course if she agrees to come to your place, that means the two of you may end up hvaing sex that night, not like she will act on it.

So Flavio, slow down buddy...

It's no like you can just go to the couch, and kiss her and make out and move on.

Nop... Nop... Nop

There is this thing called Anti-slut defense, not to be confused with LMR

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I'll give you an example

Lets say she comes over, and you suggest watching a movie on the COUCH

Then you move to kiss her

Which may work, but I can assure that later on you will find STRONGER LMR

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Why? Because for girls, there is much larger process to sex

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I could explain more, but my girl is coming over in ten minutes so, Ill just give you the guidelines

- Take off the pressure from her, just like Impact said, suggest that she brings candles or something to cook, let her feel like she was AT HOME.

- Once she gets there, be polite, cook dinner with her and both of you wash the dishes, try to keep it clean, and not messy

Now here comes the key

Stay away from her...

Give her plenty of space, if she sits by the header ofyour bed

you seat by the footer

Let her get closer to you, or hint that she wants you to get close to her

First kiss, pull back

Time constraint

Say somethng like "Youre so bad"

Light up candles

Kiss again

Move on

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I need to disagree with flavio on the "Every girl that comes to your place by her self wants to have sex with you. Period. " comment. Although I find it likely that MOST girls will...I recently had a day 2 with a HB7 who I met 3 nights earlier. She suggested a movie. You'rs our mine? I don't care? ok mine. Ok...well...HB7 turns out to be a church girl who had no intention of moving into anything more than kissing that night. Kino escalation. DHV's...I've been over and over it and although I'm not arrogant I can't figure out what I might have done differenltly given the chance.

For the OP...

It is too contrived. Take a step back. If she feels like she's walking into your lair she's gonna LMR. But...she did agree to come to your house which I believe CAN mean that she's into you and MIGHT want to sleep with you at some point. But you're going to have to DHV get her to qualify herself etc. Let her lead you there. don't forget to reward her for jumping into your hoops. such as...here wash this dish...or cut these veggies. ...all of this has been said by others smarter than me...but too quote my favorite movie pulp fiction "be like Fonzie"

later,

Cutter

LOL sounds good guys just one more question how can I stop her from flaking? I dont want to call her and all of a sudden she cant make it. Cause she has 2 jobs, and the earliest she can come over is around 930ish what you all think?



FOX

ya can't stop any chic from flaking, ya throw the dice and take the gamble

if she's coming over @9:30, thats a late dinner, hopefully she's not working the next day

dm

good luck with it man