I worked in a fashion shop, something like a european version of Aberchrombie and Finch a few years back. When I was out on friday I closed a HB10 whos working there now, so basically I know where she works and a know a few of her co-workers and its a shop so I could just go in, but anyway, Ive a predicament.

I closed her by approaching her and saying 'You look like a lady with some class. Teach me how to waltz...' got attraction, negged and then isolated. I initiated the kiss.

After we left the club I walked her up the road and hailed her a taxi, used cocky funny push/pull through out the night.

I was out saturday aswell so didnt text her.

I sent her a text at about 7 on Sunday saying 'Hey. Is this the girl with the cute laugh who took advantage of me on friday night? Fun night?'

She took ages to reply, eventually wrote back around 1130PM. With 'Hi. I had a really good night on friday and I so did not take advantage of you! Im not like that! Hope you had a good night too!'

I thought that was a bit of a blow off, that I may have annoyed her by not texting her across the whole of sunday, so she was testing me by not asking any questions to hook me into a reply. Stupidly I replied straight away! I got away with though... I wrote back with 'U so did. Stop pretending, all I wanted was a walt lesson just playin. Did you do aynthing over the weekend or were ya boring and stayed in all weekend?' at 1AM she wrote back, I was out in a club and didnt hear my phone go off. Saw my phone this morning and she had written back with 'haha ur funny! I went out last night, was in work all day 2day + just went for a few drinks after! Im just home (it was 130AM) and so tired! So what you get up to since friday?'...

Now as far as I can tell she seems hooked, attracted and potentially up for a day 2 with another text or two.

I wrote back at 12 midday today 'Only got your msg at 2AM last night, didnt wana disturb your beauty sleep I went to [club for teens, Im 21] (I know, full of kids, dont slag me) then [club from friday] again last night. Wild man or what! Im going to the zoo today! hah, my six year old cousin is all excited telling me about it, didya kno they have white tigers there!'

Looking at that msg it might be a bit long. I've not recieved a reply. Im wondering what you experts think. Usually Id refuse to text someone again if they didnt text me back, but I havent had a HB10 in a while and want to day2 here. Should I walk into her job? When? Or send another text? If so, when...

You know that "game" thing that you do when you are with a girl face to face? Apply those concepts when you're texting a girl, too. Oh, you know, concepts like push/pull, tension loops, being high value, etc.

Also, one reason that I really hate the HB 1-10 number scale is that it oftentimes creates a scarcity mentality when you think she's a high number on the scale. Use the scale if you want, but don't ever abandon your abundance mentality.

I'm really interested to see some of the advice here. I've had a similar
situation (not exactly the same), and I was at a loss for wtf I should do.

In short , there is a lack of comfort in the interaction. You got the attraction then K closed without any comfort before or after. My guess is that either she Just indulged in her attraction only to regret her feelings later on. Or possibly you failed to justify why you were attracted to her. By not building comfort or getting her to qualify why you should be attracted to her, it can appear that you are not challenging enough and the attraction was only based on her looks. (Which Isn't a problem from our point of view but is from hers)

Now to deal with this be specific with a day 2 that you are setting up so that it builds comfort. I would suggest that it is during the day (this way it won't appear to her that it was just based on attraction) and find out about her, get some good rapport going . Then move things on from there.

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thanks for the replies lads, Ill take it on board. I just got a reply, its what... 8 hours late now, its 10PM where I am. 'Hi, god I just got home from work, so tired! u went to the zoo with ur lil cuzin thats so cute! 3 nights in a row, you definitely party alot!'... No questions, but its hinting at a reply. A reply from her is a good sign anyway, because she didnt have to, I wont be bumping into in the future so theres no chance of her getting embarassed if I did...

What you lads reckon I do? Reply tomorrow, and risk the same thing because shes probably working. Or reply now with some kind of push, then hope for a reply and then pull. Replying now looks like Ive been waiting for her text all day and jumped at the phone when it arrived though, no?

Give her a call tomorow, arrange a day2.

yeah I was thinking it was time to call her, but I know she works every weekday, and late. hmmm...

I was thinking of texting her now and seeing what time shes on lunch tommorrow, saying that I'll be in the shopping centre she works in and telling her she should come out and help me pick clothes for my holidays... I know the attraction is there for that but dunno bou the comfort. might be worth the risk? What ya reckon?

call her when she gets off work or even better, when she has a day off, or just walk into the store, texting is only good for so long, you need to call/see her to keep things running.

+1

She text me back with a long text saying loads of stuff about how her day went etc etc, then 'ok im going to bed, talk to you soon'... I replied telling her I might be up around the shopping centre she works in the next day and might pop in, she had already said good night then she replied again with 'yeah do, I'll be around to give you some fashion tips'...

I popped up the next day, she took a break and came out to see me. Unfortunately she didnt seem all that open around me, was very quiet and nervous. I was being CF, she didnt take to that attitude... we went back into her shop and she showed me round, it was awkward but I didnt feel I had her hooked. I had planned on telling her I was going to take her out the next day but I left with 'text me', said confidently. I didnt really want to ask her/tell her to come out after how quiet/nervey she was at that point so I left it at the 'later, text me'... sounds AFC typing it but it wasnt that bad.

She hasnt text me.

I think its down to the fact I k-closed to quickly ask stated above, I skipped the comfort phase almost totally in hindsight.

Learned something anyway. Thanks for the help guys.