Hi all

I´m 28 years old, living in Denmark. I resently started reading "The Game" (haven´t even finished), and thought "I want this!"

About me:
I belive that I´m a "Lost Natural". At some point my life just took the wrong turn. Untill I was around 10 years old i was a normal kid(maybe even ahead of my time), playing docter, lying on top and kissing girls, before my friends did. When I was ten, my parents got divorced and my life got turned upsidedown. I lived with my mom untill I had to get out, age 18. David DeAngelo said it, when he quoted some guy (don´t remember who) "Puss´ified". I was "puss´ified" for 8 years. (IMPORTANT YEARS!)
Since then I tryed to make up for my lack of social skills by working as a lifeguard, byngyjump-instructer and taking a tour as a soldier in Iraq. All without succes.

I lost my virgenity at age 18 (a disaster by the way). It wasn´t my doing. I´m a good looking guy (that much i know) and it just happened.
I´ve been with some girls since then, but it was never my choice.

I always knew I was lacking something. But it was not longer than a year ago that I reached the "Do or Die"-point and got proffesional help. I´ve come a long way since and fast.
Fighting obligation-fobia: From livin´ in two sportsbags to buying my own apartment, making it my home and paying bills.
Fighting social-fobia: From building walls and isolating myself to breaking them down and letting people back in my life.
And lot´s of other issiues.
I´m finding the corious, happy and fun-lovin´ 10 year old boy I used to be.

These are my goal´s:
1. Beeing the corious, happy and fun-lovin´ 10 year old boy I used to be. (almost there)
2. My choice. What I want, when I want.
3. Touch people. (I don´t just mean i the physical way)
4. Stealing Christina Aguilera.
5. Stealing every rockstars girlfriend. (sorry)
6. Beeing the Best PUA ever.
7. Having a book written about my life.
8. Die having sex.

My Method:
The David DeAngelo-Cocky Comedy method. Mixed with mystery tricks and some Ross Jeffries NLP. But like Style I´m open to all methods, always looking for improvement and in the the end finding my own way. Seeking solutions instead of problems.

My advantedge:
1. I want this for me.
2. Unlike the naturals I understand the value of working to get it.
3. The Bungyjump-mentality: The entrance, ground level (safe zone, 90%); Make the final decision, pay and enter. The strapping zone, still ground level (safe but new, 101%); Butterflies building. The basket, 30cm off ground (scared, 120%); Doubt moving to fear and beginning light adrenalin-rush. The top, 70m off ground (fear, 150%); What a view. 35 degrees, 70m off ground: Point of no return (terrified, 200%); Natural rush like no other, chemicals no drugdealer ever knew eksisted floating in your vains. Back on earth, feet on the ground and head above (exstatic, 199%); your reward, a natural high lasting 24 hours.
Point of "The Bungyjump-mentality": The final decision was already made at 90%.

My ethics:
I´m a good guy and I won´t change that. I want to touch people in a positive way. Take those who want with me on adventures and emotional rollercoasters. I want to be my best. I want to motivate, provoke and even manipulate others to be their best. All in with the best intensions.

Have a great game

Lost Natural

Good intro. All it's really about is taking down those walls - most of which are put there by you.

I like the bungy analogy - I think that many people with phobias should do something extreme to feel the rush of overcoming said phobia.

As for not hurting people; i think that's fairly easy. Be honest. There may be some people that inevitably get hurt (maybe you sleep together and don't feel the same connection - could be various things), but if you've been honest from the get-go then it can only really be a short term hurt.

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.