Im a guy... Im a bartender to pay my way through uni... Girls are forced to talk to me (if they want a drink that is ) Does that not put me in the best position possible... they have to approach me?

Me and the other guys at work have a good laugh at all the AFCs trying away, but at the same time I feel bad, cause I really am an AFC too... The problem I have is starting conversation, once I get talking im fine.

So thats why im here... anyone got tips for openers that I can use to get some conversation rolling when a girl approaches me?

They don't approach you due to attraction. It's difficult to open them as they're already talk to you, and it may be difficult to kino. So you need to essentially DHV your way to attraction. If it's a loud bar or busy then it's going to be rather difficult to do. You can't lock them in as they can easily turn around on you.

Pick your openers carefully, ground it with something impressive and kino where possible (use her hands to tell the story)

"drink whatever"
"hey quick question - i need a woman's opinion" whatever "what do you think of really tall guys?"
"a friend and i were at the mall shopping for my little sister and we saw two of the tallest guys i've ever seen with these really good looking girls" take hand, bend index finger over "it was like this"

If you're not working and at the same bar, your value is much higher and you will find this helps a lot.

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