As you step on your path to success with women( whatever your goal is and whatever you define as success) you learn by getting literally a TON of information into your head. Some of it repetitive, some of it is unique and you use all of that information. There is a lot to choose from and integrate into your behavior. So
The confusion reigns.
You don’t know how the hell you’re supposed to approach the girl - maybe you should come up like you don’t give a shit, drop a line or two and, it’ll work because of #1 - this, #2 - this, and #3 - this. Just as you have read or heard someone mention.
Or
Should you approach and give her a compliment, then try to find the next step; hopefully follow these steps that you remember and get somewhere with her. And if you don’t find the next step - you’re screwed.
After some time, you get some kind of success. Maybe some numbers, attention from girls, whatever it might be.
But, you still use ALL of these techniques and models you have learned together as a TOOL to get to where you want to be.
The problem with that is you forget that ALL the techniques and methods are just that. Techniques and methods. They are like crutches - used to get you from one place to another, when you can’t move by yourself.
Eventually you learn, and for those who take the “regular” approach, it literally takes them YEARS to grasp this stuff. With time you learn that you don’t need any of that stuff to be successful and effortlessly have women in your life.
This insight comes because you realize the potential of what I call the Inner Build-Up it. And it is this huge amount of experience that you got, everything that you got out of using these techniques and models eventually builds up and starts telling you that something is wrong, man! There HAS to be another way.
Easier way, less stressful way. Nothing like a “full-time” job you’re going to
everytime you go out.
Then by accident or just by another insight, you eventually hatch.
Everything falls into place, girls are writing poems to you and you’ve overachieved all the success standards that you’ve set for yourself.
For some it takes years to get, for some only months.
Now,
The quick way to successful seduction and learning (And why would someone want the slow way??) is to define when comes the build up moment of your very first knowledge and experience , then instantly DROP all the techniques, forget everything you have read about it and only use what you have learned on intuitive level.
This will make you see the whole interaction with women and people overall 10,000 feet deeper. You will see things that you have never noticed there before, you will KNOW exactly what to do.
This is when another aspect comes into place which I will talk about later - is your special abilities. In other words - what you do BEST.
So by doing very little in the beginning, but doing it the proper way, will get you very much in the end. It’s all about leverage here.
CHAT
