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When you masturbate and ejaculate, the level of testosterone on your body immediately depletes.
In this state, the mind has depleted function. It is in a slower, more passive state. It takes longer to process a lot of information. Guys who ejaculate often (daily basis and such) are subject to having lower and lower levels of testosterone every time until they become extremely depleted and have a difficult time thinking or multi-tasking.
Men reach a peak level of testosterone after not ejaculating for 7 days.
At the peak, they are able to process more information. Sports professionals somehow figured this out fairly easily. They have more desire and resolve when players don't have sex with women so much.
The brain cannot function in a depleted state. The man's brain will begin to reduce to simpler thinking. The core part of his brain (the "caveman" part) will be more passive and simpler. It can still think of "sex" and "food" since they are the most fundamental needs. Survival and reproduction. A man can still defend himself in a low testosterone state. He won't initiate a lot of fights, though. The more advanced part of his brain (the "evolved" part) will also struggle. This part is less important to survival and reproduction, so it will suffer more than the caveman part of the brain. It will be unable to process large amounts of mixed information.
How does this relate to picking up women?
Men who masturbate a lot and consistently will have low levels of testosterone. Absolving right before a date or a couple days before a date will do very little to increase testosterone. It will take several weeks of less masturbation.
In this state, men will lack the mental capacity to approach women with greater ability to toss his "caveman" needs aside. Women sense this. They know it. Women know when a man is simply trying to have sex. Sometimes men will make it incredibly obvious. They will buy her drinks. They will ask for their number too quickly. They will talk about sex a lot. They will dress up in "cool clothes". They will act "cool" and "slick" and "aloof". Some of them will try to act "macho". All of this shit is "caveman" level thinking. It's unattractive, it feels very unsafe to women, and they will reject such men immediately. These are the losers.
Men with their full brain functioning will be able to do much more. They will be able to use the "evolved" part of their brain to talk to women about other subjects. They will want more than "food" and "sex" - such as fun conversations, humor, laughter, being able to relate, enjoy good stories, and really have a great time. They will still be horny, but they can have the multi-tasking capability to be horny AND talk about other things that make a woman feel safe. Women know that if a man is talking about a neutral subject (non-sexual) in a passionate manner, he probably doesn't have an erection, and is therefore safe. This is implicit, hard-coded into the genes.
So it's important not to masturbate. Not just skipping once. But letting your testosterone stay at a high level. If you've abstained for 2 weeks and think that ejaculating once means losing 2 weeks of effort, that's not how it works. When you masturbate once after 2 weeks, you will lose *SOME* of your testosterone, but it will rapidly come back up. Because you're already at a high level.
The worst thing you can do is masturbate constantly, depleting your brain and your body more and more. If you abstain once or twice, it doesn't help you very much.
Keep it at a high level, go ahead and ejaculate on occasion. As long as you don't make it an addiction, you're fine. Younger men are able to ejaculate often and still maintain full function of the brain. These guys have less to worry about in this department. Older guys will notice that their brains won't be as sharp if they masturbate too much.
Women are able to detect levels of testosterone in men's faces. This is linked to higher sexuality, health, and sperm potency which is key in having healthier babies. Women will be attracted to a man who is at a higher level of testosterone. Women will love a man who has big muscles, great body, and has full mental capacity to talk about a lot of interesting multiple subjects, and a man who is passionate about those things he talks about, and is fun to be around, who doesn't go around with only the "caveman" intent of getting laid, and who demonstrate that he is not afraid of his sexuality and does desire the woman. He is also willing to walk away, because his intent is not entirely to get laid, he is thinking of so many other things he is passionate about. Sex is only one of them. Not the only one.
I agree. To win you have to stop masturbating!
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