EC is really funny and in my opinion, it's a major part of the game that has not been covered in-depth in MysteryMethod. Mainly cus Mystery doesn't advocate direct approach, I think?
But here's the thing. Depending on how you do it, Eye Contact doesn't have to mean that you're telegraphing interest, or any interest at all. Sure, you're staring at someone, but how they intepret it is up to them, and you can correct them on their misinterpretation after you approach. And there are many ways staring can be interpreted.
(for example, you're staring at someone because you're curious if you know them from somewhere. Or they're dressed funny, or they're good-looking, or they have an aura that stands out, etc.).
Once I made an HB8 blush just by maintaining eye contact as we passed each other and she was lookin at me out the corner of her eye as we passed by. And the thing I realized is, it's all in the target's head that you're hitting on her, because you haven't really revealed your intention at all. And you can exploit this because they are probably confused about whether or not you're actually hitting on them.
Other times at the mall I'll stare down girls, as I walk past, but with a slight smile/grin, and they'll be like wtf or look behind their shoulder as they pass by. lol. I just started doing this recently actually.
I've been trying to develop my Eye Contact skills purely for use as an opener or to build attraction from afar.
It's weird cus everytime I walk into a room I'll get eye contact at least once from almost every person in a 10-20 meter radius. People always lookin at me like there's something on my face, so I'll use this to my advantage.
I came across this on the forum somewhere, forgot which post exactly, had it saved on my notepad:
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TylerDurdin wrote:
about in the first paragraph is “Secrets for success with beautiful women” by Ursula Lidstrom.
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Point is, PRACTISE BODYLANGUAGE. This ACCIDENT (me using just that one book for eight months) has helped me TREMENDOUSLY, now that I have access to better techniques.
Practice the SEQUENCE of TRIANGULAR GAZING, and open body language. Sidelong glances, lip licking, head tilting, smiling, soft tonality A-L-L have to be put into CALIBRATED SEQUENCE. PRACTISE a look that will make chicks fucking MELT when you’re passing by. I once made a chick FALL OVER ON HER FACE while she was with her BOYFRIEND, in a department store in Ottawa.. I tried to PU her right there in front of her BF, and he was PISSED. He KNEW what was up.
When I’m at university, it’s VERY common that chicks I approach will say “you FINALLY came over!!!”
I’m like WTF??? And its because I practice it on EVERY chick that passes me, and many of them know who I am, since they don’t realize that I do this ALL DAY. Just try not to bump into poles and shit like that, while you’re staring down every chick that passes (funny, but I’m not joking).
By having this kind of AURA, you can close chicks FAR more easily. Twentysix, for example, is probably a BETTER PUA than I am when it comes to ACTUAL PICKUP. But he can’t come close to my close-rates, SOLELY because of the ENDGAME stuff that I developed over those barren eight months. By getting your endgame stuff this tight, you can close chicks even with poor technique oftentimes. I’ve had a few chicks tell me that I’m so sexual and all this shit.. “the most sexual man I’ve ever met” etc etc... HAHAHAH they don’t know that deep down inside I’m a fucking NERD.. like the LEAST sexual guy on the PLANET just a year ago.. It’s FAKE, and REHEARSED.. So, IOW, if **I** can do it, ANYONE can.
You can LEARN bodylanguage and sexual state projection, by seeking out books that cater EXCLUSIVELY to that, and PRACTISING this stuff. ANYONE can learn it.