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EC is really funny and in my opinion, it's a major part of the game that has not been covered in-depth in MysteryMethod. Mainly cus Mystery doesn't advocate direct approach, I think?
But here's the thing. Depending on how you do it, Eye Contact doesn't have to mean that you're telegraphing interest, or any interest at all. Sure, you're staring at someone, but how they intepret it is up to them, and you can correct them on their misinterpretation after you approach. And there are many ways staring can be interpreted.
(for example, you're staring at someone because you're curious if you know them from somewhere. Or they're dressed funny, or they're good-looking, or they have an aura that stands out, etc.).

Once I made an HB8 blush just by maintaining eye contact as we passed each other and she was lookin at me out the corner of her eye as we passed by. And the thing I realized is, it's all in the target's head that you're hitting on her, because you haven't really revealed your intention at all. And you can exploit this because they are probably confused about whether or not you're actually hitting on them.

Other times at the mall I'll stare down girls, as I walk past, but with a slight smile/grin, and they'll be like wtf or look behind their shoulder as they pass by. lol. I just started doing this recently actually.

I've been trying to develop my Eye Contact skills purely for use as an opener or to build attraction from afar.

It's weird cus everytime I walk into a room I'll get eye contact at least once from almost every person in a 10-20 meter radius. People always lookin at me like there's something on my face, so I'll use this to my advantage.

I came across this on the forum somewhere, forgot which post exactly, had it saved on my notepad:
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about in the first paragraph is “Secrets for success with beautiful women” by Ursula Lidstrom.
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Point is, PRACTISE BODYLANGUAGE. This ACCIDENT (me using just that one book for eight months) has helped me TREMENDOUSLY, now that I have access to better techniques.

Practice the SEQUENCE of TRIANGULAR GAZING, and open body language. Sidelong glances, lip licking, head tilting, smiling, soft tonality A-L-L have to be put into CALIBRATED SEQUENCE. PRACTISE a look that will make chicks fucking MELT when you’re passing by. I once made a chick FALL OVER ON HER FACE while she was with her BOYFRIEND, in a department store in Ottawa.. I tried to PU her right there in front of her BF, and he was PISSED. He KNEW what was up.

When I’m at university, it’s VERY common that chicks I approach will say “you FINALLY came over!!!”

I’m like WTF??? And its because I practice it on EVERY chick that passes me, and many of them know who I am, since they don’t realize that I do this ALL DAY. Just try not to bump into poles and shit like that, while you’re staring down every chick that passes (funny, but I’m not joking).

By having this kind of AURA, you can close chicks FAR more easily. Twentysix, for example, is probably a BETTER PUA than I am when it comes to ACTUAL PICKUP. But he can’t come close to my close-rates, SOLELY because of the ENDGAME stuff that I developed over those barren eight months. By getting your endgame stuff this tight, you can close chicks even with poor technique oftentimes. I’ve had a few chicks tell me that I’m so sexual and all this shit.. “the most sexual man I’ve ever met” etc etc... HAHAHAH they don’t know that deep down inside I’m a fucking NERD.. like the LEAST sexual guy on the PLANET just a year ago.. It’s FAKE, and REHEARSED.. So, IOW, if **I** can do it, ANYONE can.

You can LEARN bodylanguage and sexual state projection, by seeking out books that cater EXCLUSIVELY to that, and PRACTISING this stuff. ANYONE can learn it.

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wait what exactly is the right thing to do? Stare them down or stare and then just look toward where your walking?

This is also my problem. I tend to just look straight ahead and if I notice someone cross me I just look at them for a few seconds and look straight forward again.

Sorry to steal the thread but I've never had a girl smile at me whenever I look at them. If I make eye contact with a random girl, do I smile at them first or wait for them to smile at me then I'll smile at theM?


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i've heard different things...some say "don't smile until she smiles" b/c it telegraphs too much interest. "Smiling should be a reward". To be honest...i don't know which is most effective...any ideas?


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your thinking too like a guy!
Men have a narrower eye peripheral and need to look directly at an object to see them. However women can look in the general direction of an object and still see it clearly, if you think its bull sh*t check it out next time you go out!! its a physiological fact! girls are always checking you out, even if you dont know it!! there just better at hiding it than us!

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Saw some post the other day, was kinda funny way to handle EC

Simple version:

Girls looks at you from a distance...

You start counting 1->5 with your fingers so she sees it then waves to her to come over. When she does you tell her she owes you 5$ becuae you charge peopole for looking at you.

Her: No I won't pay you!
You: But then you a re kinda like a robber or something, i might call the police..
Her: Uhn...
You: Cocky funny smiles, lets say like this, I bet you 5$ that I can kiss you on the lips without useing my mouth. "cocky funny smile"
Her: (If she is into you so will agree)
You: "Kiss her on the lips" Seems that I lost, i will deduct those 5$ from the 5$ you own me "cocky funny smile"

This sounds like something that rarly would work and need her to be really into you fro mthe first sight, but it worked for this guy atleast.

Think the thread was called "kissclose in 30 seconds" or somethign similar


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I'm agreeing with Chris T here,

If she's starring at you,

Give the "come here" signal with your index finger. (Smiling)

Hasn't failed me yet. It;s great for DHV

Just make sure you have something good to say when she comes to you.

(C&F) "What are you looking at?"

If she doesn't come to you,(hasn't happened to me yet), Go to her and ask why she's too shy to come and talk to you. "I only bite if you're not paying attention".

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While it's good practice to wait for them to initiate eye contact sometimes you just want the hottest girl in the whole place and sometimes she's just not looking at you so you have to initiate. However, Don't STARE. I use a two second rule. look for two seconds, if she doesn't return than look away and try again in five minutes. Once you make eye contact you don't necessarily have to smile but don't have a stone cold face either. As long as your eyes are warm, inviting and friendly and she can tell you're looking at a person and not an object of beauty than that will communicate everything. Daniel Craig as James Bond does this very well in Casino Royal.
However if you have more of a cheerful, goofy personality than smiling, sticking out your tongue, etc works as well.


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don't stare them down cause its creepy. and definitely dont look at them until they look at u


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lol man if women are staring at
you go over and approach take it
as an approch invite

and if you cant get over to talk to them
make a face at them :P or smile :)
if you make em laugh and you
see them again you will deff be able
to talk


Nothing else to add to that...good answer


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What? No! give them a funny face!

that’s what i always do and see if they’ll give you one back! If they do, then you guys are on common ground! I swear I'm not joking it works. If she’s constantly looking at you and not doing anything, don’t smile and be like “oh hey.. “ just do something funny its hilarious! then you can come up to her! Almost like testing the grounds first before entering. It also demonstrates your having fun! can't go wrong! Do it! do it!


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I agree with these folks, take it as an AI and move in. Just make sure Brad Pitt isn't standing behind you, you woulnd't want to look foolish. :wink:

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What? No! give them a funny face!

that’s what i always do and see if they’ll give you one back! If they do, then you guys are on common ground! I swear I'm not joking it works. If she’s constantly looking at you and not doing anything, don’t smile and be like “oh hey.. “ just do something funny its hilarious! then you can come up to her! Almost like testing the grounds first before entering. It also demonstrates your having fun! can't go wrong! Do it! do it!


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yeah, thats even better than smile... Im gonna try :D


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approach but never try and FORCE eye contact with a girl

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If she makes eye contact with you, use that as an invitation.
If she makes eye contact and doesn't smile at all, and just continues to stare at you, she doesn't want you or she's not looking at YOU
If she makes eye contact and smiles, she most likely is inviting you.
If she makes contact and turns away, she definitely is diggin you.

Never stare at her first though, let her make EC with you, glance her way and smirk, not a huge smile. Then when you go up to her, you can neg her about how you think she's been staring at you/ being a creeper.

This is what I have learned, correct me if i'm wrong

Oh yeah, make sure she's looking at YOU and not the guy/girl near you.


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