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Should I attempt to F-close my 2nd Cousin?
Yes  39%  [ 36 ]
No  18%  [ 17 ]
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Go seek help from a Psychiatrist  25%  [ 23 ]
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Random i found this, i was just looking at the phycological effects of rape in preperation for case study type things at college (was suggested on the course) however, i found this as a sub topic on wiki.
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Self blame
Self blame is among the most common of both short- and long-term effects.

Self blame is an avoidance coping skill which inhibits the healing process. It is primarily caused by illogical thinking (known as counterfactual thinking), which can be remedied by a therapeutic technique known as cognitive restructuring.

There are two main types of self blame: behavioral self blame (undeserved blame based on actions) and characterological self blame (undeserved blame based on character). Victims who experience behavioral self blame feel that they should have done something differently, and therefore feel at fault. Victims who experience characterological self blame feel there is something inherently wrong with them which has caused them to deserve to be assaulted.

A leading researcher on shame, Tangney[who?], lists five ways shame can be destructive:

lack of motivation to seek care;
lack of empathy;
cutting themselves off from other people;
anger;
aggression.
Tangney says shame has a special link to anger. "In day-to-day life, when people are shamed and angry they tend to be motivated to get back at a person and get revenge."

In addition shame is connected to psychological problems - such as eating disorders, substance abuse, anxiety, depression, and other mental disorders as well as problematic moral behavior. In one study over several years shame-prone kids were prone to substance abuse, earlier sexual activity, less safe sexual activity, and involvement with the criminal justice system.[15]

Behavioral self blame is associated with feelings of guilt within the victim. While the belief that one had control during the assault (past control) is associated with greater psychological distress, the belief that one has more control during the recovery process (present control) is associated with less distress, less withdrawal, and more cognitive reprocessing.
It isnt 100% relevent, because it is to do with rape and this isnt (where the artical mentions assult, change it to event). However, it could still have the same phycological effect on the girl IF she regreats it in years to come.
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Out of context but.. It's kind of ironic Mystery has that Model when he doesn't really balance it out himself. Eh? Anyways I guess I do like the feeling of every success. I'll try and change my perspective on things. After I F-close this broad of a cousin. :D

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ummm... weird...... Personally it's nothing I would ever do. But I know for a fact it's scientifically perfectly safe to have sex and even reproduce with your cousins, even 1st ones.
People of Royalty(kings queens) did it ALL the time back in the middle ages to keep sure that the blood line stays pure and the same family will hold the throne.


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ummm... weird...... Personally it's nothing I would ever do. But I know for a fact it's scientifically perfectly safe to have sex and even reproduce with your cousins, even 1st ones.
People of Royalty(kings queens) did it ALL the time back in the middle ages to keep sure that the blood line stays pure and the same family will hold the throne.
If you didn't know that those royal families in both the western and eastern worlds had malformed children, that means you didn't take the secondary education that the United States government provides for free.


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My god this forum is well fucked up.
HOW THE HELL DID MORE PEOPLE VOTE YES THAN NO?!















is she hot?

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If she isnt a HB 9+, there's gotta be something wrong.... some sort of fetish i recon :lol:


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My god this forum is well fucked up.
HOW THE HELL DID MORE PEOPLE VOTE YES THAN NO?!















is she hot?
Take another look at the poll. If you combine the no's with you need help, the out number the yes's. :wink:


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My god this forum is well fucked up.
HOW THE HELL DID MORE PEOPLE VOTE YES THAN NO?!


is she hot?
Take another look at the poll. If you combine the no's with you need help, the out number the yes's. :wink:
Yeah, thank you Jurupa! I don't understand how anyone could look at that and say, "Oh, well, there's more 'yes' than 'no', so let's just disregard all the people that say I need therapy!"

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I tried last night and I couldn't get myself to do it. I got coldfeet/a mixture of weird feelings as I'm making out with her. Sorry guys. Couldn't do it.

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You made out with her again? .......Dude, not cool.

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I voted yes...it may be moraley wrong, but what the hell...its only your 2nd cousin man, not your 1st cousin...your barely related, youd be a legend on this forum if you did man, Im pulling for you. Ya its definately fucked up, but this is hilarious. Please F-close her man.


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F-close then go see a pyschiatrist, then start saving for your kids medical bills. Then move out of town when people find out, either that or get a documentary shot about you, her and your 4-armed children.
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go for it man , get ber buckd !

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you can definitely do better than your cousin even if she is smoking hot. what would your family think of that anyways?


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this thread made my day. i voted seek a psychiatrist. maybe if you posted a pic of her and shes an HB 10 people might vote for more yes's.


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