hey everybody,
my name's isaac, i live in norway, i'm 17 years old, and i'm lucky enough to be introduced to the game at such a young age.

i've known about the game for quite a while, but it was not until recently i decided to learn the art of seduction.
so far i've learned quite a bit of theory, and i've tried to adapt small parts of it into my social interactions with success.
i've become more alpha through adjusting my body language and posture, as well as trying to adapt a more cocky funny attitude.

but still i literally choke when interacting with a really beautiful girl i don't know. i can't help it... my throat becomes dry, my facial expressions becomes jerky and i just pop into beta behavior.

so what do i want to achieve? i want to become an alpha male; i want to be able to convey the strong presence of an alpha male and feel comfortable in every situation. i wish to be desired by women and envied by men.

it's as simple as that

so, any starting tips?

You should try to find some routines to play on a girl for example say you're bored and you wanna try something you learned then do something like style's lie detector test.

Tell her to make 4 simple statements about her house, friends etc. the catch is she has to make them in her head (so she doesn't say a thing). Tell her one of them has to be a lie. Then watch her make the statements in her head one at a time. When she lies she will usually blink unusually or look to the left or something on fiddle with her hands. Try it out on one of your friends/siblings first. They usually lie on the second one.

Routines like this not only make you interesting but also give you something to occupy your nervous mind. If you are confident with the routine it will put you in charge of the conversation and she will recognize this. Learn to neg the hb (a flawed compliment such as 'you're shoes look really comfortable' or 'your dancing is crazy') and treat her like you'd treat any other. You should make yourself the prize!

gl sami

thanks for the tip, sstart. i'll try it out on my friends first. i've found it handy to have couple of tricks to show off with when i meet new people. whenever i meet a new girl, i always show her the ESP trick. it's simple, but it sure peeks their curiosity!

Before you do ANYTHING, read this:
http://www.datinggroundwork.com/community

its really important you do, because getting into this stuff can have adverse effects on other areas of your life. For me, I nearly failed my University course. DON'T FALL INTO THOSE TRAPS!

If you're just starting out, don't listen to the people on these forums. Just don't do it. The large majority of them don't actually have a clue about girls, but all they do is read about it. If you actually want to improve, find someone better than you and learn off them (even another pua).

DON'T use routines. I'm saying this coz you're still at school, and routines are only useful if ALL YOU WANT is to get laid. Mystery himself (don't know who he is, google "mystery method") can't seem to have solid relationships. Work on your CONVERSATIONAL skills. Routines aren't real conversation, and once you run out, or you have to think of one, its all downhill from there!



Deal with your bigger issues first. Are you stressed? Failing school? Family problems? Are you disorganised? Spend some time on this shit BEFORE you get into all of this. You won't feel happier just by getting a single N-close!

There's more, but i haven't got time to explain them all. Just be really careful, don't give up your hobbies for this stuff, and try to choose a "Natural" game rather than one with routines. Too many idiots use routines and magic tricks, and ive seen guys come up to me with girls i was with, and they've used routines i know of line for line, and trust me...its so fucking obvious what they're all about.

Good luck

thanks for the heads up, sunny night, i read the article and i have a slightly different view now, i'll admit that.

but i'm still going for it. i live a peaceful and happy life, but i need a hobby. i'll try not to make it an obsession.

anyways, thanks a lot.