I play this with my friends when were bored, but would it also make a good opener?

We mostly do this when were sitting around watching tv or a car ride back from somewhere and most of the time were drunk.

The whole thing is to think of two random things and see which you would rather do. Most of the times the things are pretty messed up, so you'd have to tone it down for a girl.

"Would you rather fight an aligator on crack or an rhino with a steroid problem?"

"Would you rather play twister with a quadrapoligic or a drinking contest with a recovering alchololic?"

"Would you rather have sex with a quadrapoligic or a midget?"

Just some really messed up examples

I have done these types of openers before actually. They can be a lot of fun. There are just two things you need to remember. #1 Stay away from any topics that could be considered weird or creepy. #2 You need to have a small backstory prepared for why you're asking them. Something along the lines of "My friends and I were over there having this crazy discussion and so let me ask you guys, Would you rather..."

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This reminds me of a Friends episode, where Ross walks up to 2 girls, asking them how they'd rather die; by drowning or by catching fire. It's really hilarious, but you can imagine the reaction he got. So I agree to smooth; any creepy topics are not done!

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Sounds cool but like jsmooth said, you'll probably need a good backstory. I think this would work better as a game in comfort.

thanks guys.

Vtech- i think comfort building might be good for this. It gets the girls laughing and off their gaurd. It disarms them.

Of course, games like these are wonderful comfort builders too.

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That is a great opener it would work. I like that they are crazy situations, because it makes for fun conversations. This is also a great opener for comfort because it could bring out emotions, and makes for good connection.

I will most likely be using these openers friday(tomorrow lol finally) for some fun, and maybe some disputations as well.

BuzzKilla let me know how it goes.

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Its just about to pull the right emotional ropes, heres an example:

PUA: "Would you rather kiss your ideal man without he wants to, or kiss a girl with bad breath?"

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what does "without he wants to" mean?

First you spelled "QUADRIPLEGIC" wrong but I have to admit I'm offended quads being compared to midgets. I'm not a quad, but I am a paraplegic( waist down paralysis) because of a car accident that wasn't my fault. I sure wasn't born like this and could walk for almost 27 years. I actually got into pickup stuff because I felt I needed an edge because being paralyzed from the waist down puts me at a disadvantage with women. I know a lot of quadriplegics though and they weren't born like that either. They didn't ask to be like that. Nobody thinks something like paralysis can happen to them; I know I didn't. I can't really say much because when I could walk I felt the same way but watch who you talk about because you may get hit by a drunk driver too someday and end up moving your wheelchair by blowing through a straw and somewhere some kids asking some girl "would you rather have sex with a quadriplegic or a midget?"

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Its basically kissing your ideal man against his will.

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