ok this happens to me but i dont know if its an invite?
I act confident and I make eye contact with a girl usually at a distance and I see she looks at me really quickly and makes eye contact ....then she looks away then makes a quick look back but doesn't hold it ...she also doesn't look again after the second look this happens to me ALWAYS! is she just doing it to see who I am? or is this an invite .

Yeah, sure, why not? If you believe and expect it to be an invite, she'll respond as if it were. It's almost like magic. Oooo scary hocus pocus.

By the way, this effect is even stronger if you aren't sure - if you think it could go either way. Chances are she's just as unsure and she needs an external source/guide who IS sure. Just pick a frame and she'll follow.

However, what difference does it make? You'll open if you're interested whether or not you were "invited," right? Then you can plow through to hook if you weren't "invited," right? Right-O, champ.

I bet you were expecting some analytical responses that pick apart the reality that the girl has in her head, huh? Oh well. Too bad I gave you a response that says "FUCK that. I'm making my own reality."

Gosh if I weren't me I'd think I'm insane.

Oh, by the way, don't post the same exact thread in multiple sections of the forum in hopes of getting more attention and responses sooner. That's like littering. I'm deleting the copy.

yeah that's something i have to get into my fucking head also. Right on Chief....i know you're completely correct on that. Just recently i read an interview with a boxer who has been in the organization for his entire life and was asked about different boxers throughout history, who was the best, etc.

Although his analytical/technical way of looking at things, his response was someone other than Muhammad Ali. But he then stated "although, everyone believes Ali was the best there was, because he said he was".

All of us have the ability to alter our reality to what we see fit, although i'm tentative about that because i wouldn't want to be delusional. But as long as i'm not hurting someone, what can be the harm in that?