How do you think and act around girls that help you stop thinking about rules of PUA and the way you act covers all the rules anyways like being able to pass shit test without thinking about if she gave you one or not. If you can answer this you will help me out a lot

I think what you're asking is how you get to the point of it all flowing naturally. In short, practice, practice, practice. The more you go out and work your game the more natural it all becomes.

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yes I know but what is your mentality when you reach that level? I know you forgot about all the rules pua has right? But you probably have no problem picking girls up because you know how to act to get them.

You don't forget about it you just think about it less. The same way as you become really good at a throwing a frisbee you dont have to think about it as much but you still know what you have to do. Just because you get good at it doesn't mean you disregard all you have learnt.

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Note to self: Reffering to Chief by something other than his name has the knock on effect of strolling into the chat room and being asked; 'Crumpetberry are you a single hippie looking for a man'

ok I understand now it just becomes hardwired into your thoughts

I don't focus on the girl. I focus on my performance. I don't give a damn what she thinks, I do and say what I really want and if she digs it, supersweet, if she doesnt then I stay solid until she falls into my frame.

There's always a way to win a girl over. If you focus on yourself during a pickup, you forget all about the target and you really loose all anxiety and don't second question yourself at all.

Shit tests are just tests. There's many ways to pass, but the best way to do it is make her go through her own hoop. If you can challenge her and prove her wrong then you pass.

EDIT: I don't do and say what I want, but I have a list of topics that I use to open up conversations that her to invest herself in me emotionally and elicit positive feelings. Another thing to keep in mind is ignore her values, they will always change by who she is surrounding herself by. If she surrounds herself around you, her values will change to yours. so make sure you talk about your values when rapport is set.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

I'm far from a true player, but I have the mentality that I own the whole damn world. I really believe this and it seems to work out pretty well for me. This state of mind has gotten me over AA, rejection, and all sorts of other little problems.

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Idk about owning the whole world, but if you have the mentality that you have the ability to control the girl's emotions, feelings, and everything that the two of you will do togethor it should be a big positive. Staying 100% positive about everything is also a big inner game booster.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

Okay so i read many Bruce Lee books.

The steps too become a master:(this gets too a good point, keep reading)

Okay, to some it up, eventually you're skills of pickup become so honed, it becomes natural too you. you become a mpua.

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"Are you afraid of a man who practices a thousand different kicks, or a man who practices one kick a thousand times." --Bruce Lee. Now lets relate---you don't need 50 openers, a few well practiced ones will do.

If I could tell you how to think like I do when I do something, then I would be a rich man. I can break stuff down, hypothetically, or after I have done something, or seen someone else do something, but you're asking how we think, when we aren't thinking about it....do you see the contradiction there? As you've already been told, it just get's to be a natural way of thinking and you don't have to go through all the steps, kinda like in math when you get good at it, you don't have to do all the steps, you just know.

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