Women are the wishiest-washiest bitches you will ever meet. Understand this before you enter the field. It's their game and we are the players.

You will flip attraction switches, comfort switches, sex them, and in a moment they will turn on you. It could be a multitude of reasons, or none at all. It doesn't matter though because it's going to happen. I write this because a stage 5 clinger went from "I am soo in love with you" to "I regret ever seeing you". It doesn't bother me. I'm posting this so you guys don't take things to personally after you hook a girl-she gets buyer's remorse or instantly blows you off. It's how they work. The only thing you can do is nothing. Stay solid in your frame and let it pass. Just like us, they deal with paranoia, and conjure fucking weird thoughts that repel themselves from you. Except it's 10x worse. Not only that but they're sensitive, emotional, hormonal and second guess what they want. So take all this into consideration. Just know that just as easily as they were attracted to you, they can fall out of it.

Play the game right. Actually I take that back. There is no right or wrong way to play, you can only do what you think is best and hope for a good outcome. Remember to stay flexible and adjust yourself to any situation. This is key. Women will trap you and claw you the fuck apart if you don't. For those of you in LTRs you know what I'm talking about.

Their game is "I don't have a fucking clue so please Prince Charming, sweep me off my feet". Every slip up is almost fixable though. So stay positive. It's a chess game and until check-mate you still have a chance.

And also, since they are all of the above (I posted them), don't take what they say so seriously. Even if it is "Let's get fucking married". Enjoy it, but don't hold them to their word. Look at all the cheating girlfriends out there. That could be yours. My point is don't hold women accountable. They are lost sheep. You can convince their mind when they are emotional or vulnerable. Don't design you're game over their frame, design it over yours. You are key. That is all.

Stay strong, positive, and lead. Women are the lost sheep.
-Beschatten.

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Nice post. Coming out of a LTR recently I was torn to shreds and made to feel guilty even though she cheated on me. I'm never letting that happen again.

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If you believe it will happen, then it probably will. If you truly feel that women are wishy-washy bitches then this belief will somehow seep through your frame and the women around you will catch onto it. Once they do I'm sure they'll leave you.

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Do you honestly feel that pickup is a chore? That's not really a good belief to have if you want to be successful.

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lol I dunno if your mind is in the right set.

I think you're just ANNOYED that you didn't get a certain gurl, thats it. Maybe you seemed too 'desperate'? Or you just weren't hur type?

Sex is a CHOICE for men as much as it is for women. The only problem is, MEN started off chasing WOMEN! When really, we shud have played it cool and MADE the women come to us!

Remember, pick up is a game. Whether you play it or not is your choice.

Nobody elses.

Dude, Beschatten, you're so full of shit right now.

Sure, you're making some valid points; women are natural followers that thrive off of a strong leader. However, there are always many ways to look at one thing.

The stage 5 clinger told you things that hurt you, and you say it doesn't bother you. Yeah, right. The tone of a lot of your posts nowadays can be summed up in one word: bitter. It's natural to go through a bitter phase when you're learning pickup, but it's important not to dwell in it because it hinders your enlightenment. You're essentially blinding yourself with an attitude that has a dogmatic energy.

Being strong, positive, and a leader isn't about thinking of others as dumb sheep. It's about really knowing what it's like to walk a mile in your followers' shoes, then leading them in a direction that they really want to go but can't go without you. In fact, you can't go without them, either. The dynamic between a leader and a follower is symbiotic like this. The leader and the follower are equal in value and they each have something different to bring to the table. You cannot discredit one side for lacking qualities that the other excels in.

This is why I really love women. I know that despite all the things that make them seem inferior to some men, they hold A LOT of value in many other beautiful ways. They're so expressive. They take in everything around them. They are more able to become one with nature and the energies of the world. They let music flow through them in such a way that a man can never experience. Women are everything we are not, and that makes the yin yang complete.

I think one reason you are bitter is that a part of you believes that women should share some of a man's responsibility. This is a common belief spoon-fed to us by neofeminism, political correctness, etc. Forget that shit. Know that men and women really are different and that's a good thing. It brings harmony to the world. In fact, I think it'd be pretty tragic if women were just like men.

Imagine if all women were decisive, committed, dominant, driven, passionate to the point where it's almost obsessive, athletic, alpha leaders, insensitive, logical, unemotional, beer-guzzling, etc... Sure, at first you might think that'd be great, but it really wouldn't be. You think it would solve all the conflict you'd experience, but the truth is that conflict is the source of all sexual tension. You'd start feeling pretty useless, and so would everyone else. In fact, you'd start wondering why you weren't attracted to women anymore and your sense of sexuality will go haywire.

I'm grateful for feminine women and everything that they offer.

chief is good, nice post

This is sooo true i had to find out the hard way.

Women lie. a LOT

Guess what men alos lie a lot.

I'm not trying to start a fucking troll war here. Chill out. Obviously some people see what I'm talking about so my perspective is valid. If it doesn't apply to you then super. To me it's happened way too many times to let this go unnoticed.

[My posts aren't bitter. and I am not bitter. My style of writing just tends to be hold a certain level of cynicism.]
I'm not bashing on women or letting my thoughts control or edit my frame. When I pickup my frame is solid. I don't even focus on the girl, I focus on
my performance.
women don't hurt me. and no i'm not desperate. and again no, i did not fail to get a girl i want. i have no target SPAM, my life is good and i am restructuring other areas outside of women.
Uhhh... you really have clue about how many fucking orbitals women have. I gaurantee for a HB5 there are at least 10 orbitals and guys willing to fuck them. on the other hand, a average joe will have zero. Besides it's not my motto, it's Ross Jeffries. Pickup is not a chore, i never said that nor do I agree with that made-up argument.


On the other hand Chief, i appreciate you're positive criticism. Korean-to-Korean I understand you're bright. I was only using the 'sheep' comparison as a metaphor. We must be the shepard and guide them or they will be lost. I have been in too many relationships where I gave the girl the lead and it went nasty. My crucial point of this post was to share insight on how important it is too lead. Women also change their minds a lot. One day they can be in love with you, the next they can be fucking my frat brother. It all depends on their emotional state. More emotions (negative or confusion) = more vulnerability. crucial concept i picked up in all my LTRs.

p.s. i love women too. but i understand their weaknesses and my own weaknesses and i adjust frame, and my game to this.

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